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&lt;/script&gt;</html><description>I am currently working on the &#x201C;Perfectionism&#x201D; course by Thais Gibson. She recommends to inquire, whether the particular thing we are trying to control is actually within our reasonable control. And if not, to stop trying to control it &#x2013; and surrender to the outcome. As driven, perfectionistic people, we might feel that &#x201C;nothing is [&hellip;]</description></oembed>

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