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Ich hatte bisher nur eine Freundin, und wir haben uns wegen eines Teddyb\u00e4ren getrennt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Das ist nat\u00fcrlich \u00fcbertrieben, es gab noch andere Probleme, aber der Teddy war ein Symbol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Die Geschichte geht so: Wir lernten uns kennen, gingen aus, hatten Sex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich begann, mich zur\u00fcckzuziehen, und sie geriet dadurch zunehmend unter Stress. Sie versuchte zum Beispiel, mich eifers\u00fcchtig zu machen (\"Was h\u00e4ltst du von diesem Typen?\"), was aber nicht funktionierte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Als ich erw\u00e4hnte, dass ich nach Indien reisen w\u00fcrde, sagte sie zu mir: \"Ich mag Sarees\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich mag auch Sarees (an Frauen), aber ich habe nicht viel von dieser Bemerkung gehalten. Ich fuhr nach Indien und schenkte ihr einen Teddyb\u00e4r, weil der Valentinstag bevorstand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es sollte eine \u00dcberraschung sein, aber bei einem Videoanruf hat sie erraten, was in der Tasche war. Und sie war nicht gl\u00fccklich! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Ich wollte einen Saree, und du hast mir nur diesen kleinen Teddyb\u00e4r geschenkt!\". Zu diesem Zeitpunkt war ich noch unsicherer, was mich selbst und das Setzen von Grenzen anging - also sagte ich \"nat\u00fcrlich nicht\", ging los und kaufte eine Halskette. Am Ende haben wir den Valentinstag nicht zusammen verbracht - und ich habe die Halskette zur\u00fcckgegeben; <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e4tte ich bekannt <\/strong>Wenn ich gewusst (oder verstanden) h\u00e4tte, dass sie einen Saree wollte, h\u00e4tte ich ihr einen besorgt. Sie h\u00e4tte sogar die Farbe aussuchen k\u00f6nnen!<\/strong> Explizite Kommunikation, bitte!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Und wenn sie \u00dcberraschungen mag, h\u00e4tte der Teddy auch oben auf dem Saree liegen k\u00f6nnen - und wir h\u00e4tten einen sch\u00f6nen Valentinstag mit zwei \u00dcberraschungen gehabt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00f6glicherweise gibt es kulturelle Unterschiede, und ja, vielleicht muss ich mich aus ihrer Sicht als Versorger mit h\u00f6heren materialistischen Investitionen zeigen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aber ich werde nicht zum Gedankenleser - das ist ein gef\u00e4hrlicher Weg, und es gibt viele Frauen da drau\u00dfen, die es nicht n\u00f6tig haben, dass ich sie auff\u00e4dle.<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Der Teddy war ein Symbol f\u00fcr das, was zwischen uns schief lief - wir brachten unsere Bed\u00fcrfnisse nicht zum Ausdruck und kommunizierten nicht ausdr\u00fccklich miteinander. Der Teddy war ein Symbol f\u00fcr \"Ich denke an dich\" von meiner Seite aus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Epilog<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Sp\u00e4ter, nachdem wir uns bereits getrennt hatten, versuchte sie tats\u00e4chlich, einen meiner besten Freunde zu \u00fcberreden, ihr einen Saree zu kaufen. Er hat das \u00fcberhaupt nicht verstanden. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ihre beste Chance w\u00e4re gewesen, direkt mit mir zu sprechen: \"Cool, du f\u00e4hrst nach Indien? K\u00f6nnen Sie mir einen blauen Saree bringen?<\/strong> Wenn du mir ein paar Bilder schickst, kann ich dir vielleicht sagen, welche mir gefallen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto von Sandy Millar<\/a> auf Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I had only one girlfriend so far, and we broke up because of a teddy bear. That is exaggerating of course, there were other issues, but the teddy was a symbol. The story goes like this: we met, dated, had sex. I started to withdraw, and she started to become increasingly stressed because of this. 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