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Mit einem Messer kann man Brot schneiden. Mit einem Messer kann man andere Menschen verletzen und sich selbst verletzen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beharrlichkeit trotz Ablehnung<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Das ist eine Angewohnheit, eine Sache, die ich in meiner Kindheit gelernt habe. Mein Vater konnte unberechenbar sein. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich erinnere mich gut an das Gef\u00fchl des Vertrauens, das sich im Laufe der Zeit bei ihm aufbaute, um dann durch einen weiteren unvorhersehbaren Vorfall - mit harten Worten oder sogar Gewalt (gegen\u00fcber Dingen, aber in einigen F\u00e4llen leider auch gegen\u00fcber mir oder meinem Bruder) - ersch\u00fcttert zu werden. Ich erinnere mich, dass ich wie auf Eierschalen lief, mich unsicher f\u00fchlte und mich oft in Frage stellte. Ich versuchte herauszufinden, was ich richtig machen konnte, um sicher zu bleiben. Um sicher zu bleiben, indem ich ihn durch meine Handlungen kontrollierte. Indem wir uns mehr anstrengen<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Verflechtung und Co-Abh\u00e4ngigkeit<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Genau, das. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich benutzte das Messer der Beharrlichkeit trotz Ablehnung, um sicher zu sein. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Wenn du abgelehnt wirst, gib dir mehr M\u00fche\", fl\u00fcstert mir das Messer zu. K\u00f6nnen Sie das nachvollziehen? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partnersuche als Erwachsener<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Diese Angewohnheit f\u00fchrte dazu, dass ich immer wieder an M\u00e4dchen h\u00e4ngen blieb, die mich ablehnten. \"Wenn du abgelehnt wirst, gib dir mehr M\u00fche.\"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich benutzte das Messer gegen mich selbst, und in gewisser Weise benutzte ich es auch gegen diese Frauen (ich \u00e4rgerte sie). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Erst in N habe ich wirklich an diesem Muster gearbeitet und es behoben. Ich h\u00f6rte auf, Frauen nachzujagen, die nicht verf\u00fcgbar waren oder Nein gesagt hatten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Auch wenn ich von Zeit zu Zeit an einige dieser Frauen denke (z. B. bei einer k\u00fcrzlichen Verabredung mit einer Frau, die in M\u00fcnchen lebt), ist die Jagd nach ihnen eine Sackgasse. Mir ist klar, dass es aus irgendeinem Grund nicht geklappt hat, und die Gr\u00fcnde werden wahrscheinlich weiter bestehen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Die Supermacht<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nun ist ein Messer ein Werkzeug - und zwar ein sehr n\u00fctzliches. Stellen Sie sich vor, Sie m\u00fcssten Essen zubereiten, ohne ein Messer zu haben!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wir brauchen Messer in unserem Leben, und wir auch <\/strong>m\u00fcssen sie auf die richtige Weise eingesetzt werden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ebenso ist dieses \"Ausharren trotz Ablehnung\" eine Superkraft, wenn man es richtig anwendet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Der Trick ist - es zu tun sequenziell<\/strong>weiterhin nach romantischen Partnern zu suchen (trotz Ablehnung), sondern nach ANDERE <\/strong>romantische Partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trotz Ablehnung durchzuhalten. Aber die Person zu \u00e4ndern, mit der man sich verabredet. Sich zu \u00e4ndern, bis man mit einer Person zusammenpasst, die einen nicht zur\u00fcckweist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dies. Anstatt aufzugeben, anstatt \u00fcber meine Kindheit zu lamentieren und dar\u00fcber, dass sie mich Jahre (eigentlich etwa zwei Jahrzehnte!) an Zeit bei der Partnersuche gekostet hat, kann ich akzeptieren, dass ich das einzigartige Geschenk habe, \u00fcber dieses Werkzeug zu verf\u00fcgen. Ich wei\u00df, wie ich trotz Ablehnung weitermachen kann. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sie hat sich im Gesch\u00e4ftsleben als n\u00fctzlich erwiesen. Jetzt wird sie, richtig eingesetzt, auch bei der Partnersuche n\u00fctzlich sein. Ich werde weitermachen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto von Daniil Onischenko<\/a> auf Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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