{"id":458,"date":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=458"},"modified":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","slug":"wie-sieht-es-aus-wenn-zwei-menschen-sich-gegenseitig-auslosen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/de\/wie-sieht-es-aus-wenn-zwei-menschen-sich-gegenseitig-auslosen\/","title":{"rendered":"Wie sieht es aus, wenn zwei Menschen sich gegenseitig ausl\u00f6sen?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bei einer Networking-Veranstaltung in London traf ich eine Gruppe von Leuten, und wir gingen gemeinsam in die Bar \"The Alchemist\". Nat\u00fcrlich waren einige Drinks im Spiel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Einer der Jungs - nennen wir ihn Harry - unterhielt sich mit zwei Frauen an einem Tisch in der N\u00e4he, und bald folgten ich und zwei weitere Herren. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Harry und eine der Frauen f\u00fchrten ein Gespr\u00e4ch. Ich fing an zuzuh\u00f6ren, und bald ging der Dialog dazu \u00fcber, dass Harry Dinge sagte wie: \"Nichts von dem, was du sagst, ist f\u00fcr mich von Bedeutung, ich bin ruhig.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Soweit ich wei\u00df, hatte Harry das Gef\u00fchl, sie w\u00fcrde ihn der L\u00fcge bezichtigen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Die Frau selbst hat Dinge gesagt wie: \"Du setzt eine Maske auf\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sie begannen, sich im Kreis zu drehen, wiederholten die Aussagen des anderen und versuchten in gewisser Weise, ihre jeweiligen Argumente zu beweisen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nach etwa zehn Minuten bat die Frau ihren Begleiter zu gehen - sie wechselten an einen anderen Tisch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Harry drehte sich zu mir um und erkl\u00e4rte, dass er Frauen liebt und ihr die Wahrheit sagt, dass er einer der ehrlichsten Menschen ist usw. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich sagte ihm, er solle die Sache auf sich beruhen lassen, und dass ich nat\u00fcrlich wei\u00df und er wei\u00df, dass er die Wahrheit sagt. Aber dass manche Menschen die Dinge anders wahrnehmen und dass es Energieverschwendung ist, ihnen das Gegenteil beweisen zu wollen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ich habe das jetzt schon ein paar Mal beobachtet, wenn zwei Menschen in einen Streit verwickelt sind - oft geht es darum, dass bestimmte Muster und Schmerzpunkte ausgel\u00f6st werden und die Menschen versuchen, den Schmerz zu vermeiden, den sie in der Vergangenheit erlebt haben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vor einiger Zeit schrieb ich den Blogbeitrag \"Wie sieht es aus, nicht ausgel\u00f6st zu werden?<\/a>\". Stellen Sie sich vor, wie anders das Gespr\u00e4ch verlaufen w\u00e4re, wenn diese Frau und Harry fehlte <\/strong>die einzelnen Ausl\u00f6ser - vielleicht h\u00e4tten sie das Missverst\u00e4ndnis mit einem Lachen quittiert und an diesem Abend neue Freunde gefunden. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jede Wahrnehmung ist ein Gl\u00fccksspiel. Und sie basiert auf unserer Vergangenheit, sehr sogar. Das Loslassen von Schmerz bedeutet, eine schmerzhafte Vergangenheit loszulassen, indem man sich eine ausgeglichenere Gegenwart und Zukunft vorstellt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wie kann man diese Ausl\u00f6ser loswerden?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ein wunderbares Werkzeug, um diese Ausl\u00f6ser loszuwerden, ist das Werkzeug zur Verarbeitung von Emotionen (von Thais Gibson)<\/a>. Konsequent angewandt wird es Ihnen helfen zu erkennen, dass Menschen Informationen auf ihre eigene Art und Weise wahrnehmen. Du brauchst andere Menschen nicht auf eine bestimmte Art und Weise, um gl\u00fccklich zu sein. Sie m\u00fcssen Ihre Unschuld nicht beweisen - denken Sie daran, dass diese Menschen nicht Ihre Eltern sind und dass sie nicht die gleiche Macht \u00fcber Sie haben, die Ihre Eltern einst hatten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto von Andrei Ianovskii<\/a> auf Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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