tienen que satisfacer mejor las necesidades<\/strong>\u00a1que cada individuo en la relaci\u00f3n ser\u00eda capaz de cumplirlos por s\u00ed mismo por su cuenta!<\/p>\n\n\n\nDeber\u00edamos tener esto en cuenta cuando las relaciones fracasan o se rompen: \u00a1significa que las necesidades no fueron satisfechas! (Por supuesto, lo mismo ocurre cuando las personas enga\u00f1an: buscan satisfacer sus necesidades, por ejemplo, de atenci\u00f3n, de ser especiales, etc., que no se satisfacen en la relaci\u00f3n principal).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La mayor tragedia es cuando estas rupturas podr\u00edan haberse evitado con una mejor comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poniendo l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Establecer l\u00edmites: es la comunicaci\u00f3n sobre lo que necesitas y lo que no. Lo que te perjudica, lo que te beneficia. Lo que esperas. Lo que necesitas para sentirte feliz en una relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00a1Es tan importante comunicar esto! Parece que a veces es tan dif\u00edcil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Es posible que hayamos aprendido de situaciones pasadas que poner l\u00edmites no era deseable, porque las personas a las que intentamos poner estos l\u00edmites sintieron que sus necesidades se ve\u00edan amenazadas y actuaron en consecuencia (reprimiendo que pusi\u00e9ramos l\u00edmites, en lugar de darse cuenta de que van a una situaci\u00f3n sin salida). <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Renunciar a los l\u00edmites es algo muy ineficaz <\/strong>que hacer. <\/p>\n\n\n\nDar de m\u00e1s conduce al resentimiento y a aumentar las expectativas de la otra persona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De hecho, ahora mismo estoy trabajando en la fobia al compromiso (espec\u00edficamente con las mujeres), y veo que mi miedo a poner l\u00edmites con las mujeres (y por lo tanto a herirlas - poni\u00e9ndome en peligro de esta manera) me mantiene FUERA de las relaciones. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
(\"A la mierda, mientras no pueda poner l\u00edmites, no me meto en una relaci\u00f3n\").<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pero este es un problema que estoy creando yo mismo al no establecer estos l\u00edmites en primer lugar. Al no aceptar que NECESITAN ser establecidos, para realmente tener una relaci\u00f3n saludable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tengo la idea correcta de no querer tener relaciones insanas y sin l\u00edmites. Pero ni siquiera les doy a estas mujeres la oportunidad de respetar mis l\u00edmites. Simplemente huyo de ellas, dando por sentado que todas las mujeres me van a faltar el respeto a mis l\u00edmites (y que no puedo hacer nada al respecto). <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de esto, amable lector? \u00bfCrees que todas las mujeres no respetan los l\u00edmites honestos? \u00bfCrees que las que lo hacen, repetidamente, pueden mostrarse en la relaci\u00f3n de la manera que \u00e9sta requiere?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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