{"id":383,"date":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=383"},"modified":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","modified_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","slug":"persistir-en-el-rechazo-a-una-superpotencia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/persistir-en-el-rechazo-a-una-superpotencia\/","title":{"rendered":"Persistir a pesar del rechazo: un superpoder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un cuchillo sirve para cortar pan. Un cuchillo puede utilizarse para herir a otras personas y para herirte a ti mismo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Persistir a pesar del rechazo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Es un h\u00e1bito, algo que adquir\u00ed en la infancia. Mi padre pod\u00eda ser impredecible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recuerdo muy bien la sensaci\u00f3n de confianza que se iba construyendo poco a poco con \u00e9l, para ser destrozada por otro episodio imprevisible, de palabras duras, o incluso violencia (hacia las cosas, pero en algunos casos desgraciadamente hacia m\u00ed o hacia mi hermano). Recuerdo que caminaba sobre c\u00e1scaras de huevo, sinti\u00e9ndome insegura y cuestion\u00e1ndome mucho. Intentaba averiguar qu\u00e9 pod\u00eda hacer bien para mantenerme a salvo. Mantenerme a salvo control\u00e1ndole con mis acciones. <strong>Esforz\u00e1ndose m\u00e1s<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Enmeshment y codependencia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Exactamente, esto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estaba usando el cuchillo de persistir a pesar del rechazo para mantenerme a salvo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Cuando te rechacen, esfu\u00e9rzate m\u00e1s\", me susurra el cuchillo. \u00bfTe sientes identificado? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Citas para adultos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Este h\u00e1bito me llev\u00f3 a un patr\u00f3n de quedarme pegado a chicas que me rechazaban. <strong>\"Cuando te rechacen, esfu\u00e9rzate m\u00e1s\".<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estaba usando el cuchillo contra m\u00ed mismo, y de alguna manera tambi\u00e9n lo estaba usando contra estas mujeres (molest\u00e1ndolas). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No fue hasta N que realmente trabaj\u00e9 en este patr\u00f3n, y lo arregl\u00e9. Dej\u00e9 de perseguir a mujeres que no estaban disponibles o que hab\u00edan dicho que no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque de vez en cuando pienso en algunas de esas mujeres (por ejemplo, una cita reciente, con una mujer que vive en M\u00fanich), perseguirlas es un callej\u00f3n sin salida. Me doy cuenta de que no funcion\u00f3 por alguna raz\u00f3n, y es probable que las razones persistan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La superpotencia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Un cuchillo es una herramienta muy \u00fatil. Imag\u00ednese tener que preparar la comida sin un cuchillo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Necesitamos cuchillos en nuestras vidas, y nosotros <strong>tambi\u00e9n <\/strong>hay que utilizarlos de la manera correcta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Del mismo modo, este \"persistir a pesar del rechazo\" es un superpoder, cuando se aplica correctamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El truco est\u00e1 en hacerlo <strong>secuencialmente<\/strong>seguir buscando pareja rom\u00e1ntica (a pesar del rechazo), sino buscar <strong>OTROS <\/strong>parejas rom\u00e1nticas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Para persistir a pesar del rechazo. Para cambiar a la persona con la que intentas salir. Cambiar hasta coincidir con una persona que no te rechace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esto. En lugar de rendirme, en lugar de lamentarme de mi infancia y de que me cost\u00f3 a\u00f1os (\u00a1en realidad algo as\u00ed como dos d\u00e9cadas!) de citas, puedo aceptar que tengo el regalo \u00fanico de disponer de esta herramienta. 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