{"id":462,"date":"2024-03-10T16:41:49","date_gmt":"2024-03-10T16:41:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=462"},"modified":"2024-03-10T16:49:40","modified_gmt":"2024-03-10T16:49:40","slug":"expectativas-roles-y-dejar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/expectativas-roles-y-dejar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Expectativas, papeles y dejarse llevar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hoy reflexionaba sobre el rendimiento de un empleado de mi empresa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

desajuste de expectativas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Me di cuenta de que una parte clave de la fricci\u00f3n que experimento con \u00e9l son las expectativas que tengo de \u00e9l y la falta de correspondencia entre lo que realmente ocurre y esas expectativas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con algunos otros empleados, por ejemplo, el desarrollador que est\u00e1 construyendo businessbreeze.de<\/a> para m\u00ed, no hay desajuste de expectativas. Estoy satisfecha, \u00a1incluso en algunos aspectos ella supera mis expectativas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

expectativa de funciones<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Como directivo, como amigo, como pareja rom\u00e1ntica, tenemos expectativas respecto a las otras personas que nos hacen de contrapartida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estas expectativas son humanas, naturales y \u00fatiles. Al fin y al cabo, como directivo, tiene que ofrecer determinados resultados a la empresa. Espera que los miembros de su equipo obtengan los resultados que usted necesita para alcanzar los objetivos de la empresa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como pareja rom\u00e1ntica, tambi\u00e9n tenemos expectativas: por ejemplo, que nuestra pareja nos d\u00e9 prioridad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Creo que es muy \u00fatil disponer de estas expectativas<\/strong> de ciertos papeles <\/strong>las personas juegan en tu vida. Porque la papeles <\/strong>exigen que se cumplan estas expectativas: por ejemplo, una pareja sentimental debe ser fiel (dentro de los l\u00edmites de la exclusividad acordada).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al mismo tiempo, es importante darse cuenta de que se trata de funciones -y que las personas no siempre encajan en el puesto.<\/strong> O puede que al principio encajen, pero a medida que cambie la funci\u00f3n, o que cambien ellos, puede que \"pierdan el ajuste\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

dejar de lado las expectativas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que creo, que la respuesta es realmente una vez las expectativas se han visto frustradas<\/strong>Si se ha intentado la comunicaci\u00f3n y no ha resultado fruct\u00edfera, hay que dejar de lado las expectativas con respecto a una determinada persona o proyecto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nota: soltar expectativas <\/strong>para un cierta persona<\/strong>. No dejar de lado las expectativas de un papel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En otras palabras, si tu pareja te enga\u00f1a -y sucede repetidamente despu\u00e9s de la comunicaci\u00f3n- es muy \u00fatil dejar ir la expectativa \/ idea de que esta persona en particular no deber\u00eda enga\u00f1arte. Esto va de la mano con quitarle a la persona el papel de \"pareja rom\u00e1ntica\", por supuesto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e1sicamente: busca personas que encajen \"naturalmente\" en los papeles que t\u00fa \"necesitas que encajen\". En lugar de seguir frustr\u00e1ndote por las expectativas desajustadas, ... y seguir aferr\u00e1ndote a la idea de que una determinada persona tiene que desempe\u00f1ar un papel espec\u00edfico en tu vida. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto te permite actualizar el modelo del mundo que tienes en la cabeza y convertirlo en un modelo realista: tienes expectativas realistas de las personas que las cumplen. Y dejar marchar a las personas de tu vida que no cumplen las expectativas del papel que quieres que desempe\u00f1en. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

... \u00a1o seleccionando un papel diferente para ellos!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

expectativas en un contexto de citas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

En Medell\u00edn conoc\u00ed a una mujer preciosa. Quer\u00eda pasar tiempo con ella para conocerla mejor, y se me dio la oportunidad. La llev\u00e9 a una cita en Cartagena, fue una noche muy agradable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de la cita, fuimos a dar un paseo, pero cuando volvimos a su hostal, se despidi\u00f3 r\u00e1pidamente: \"Gracias por todo y que tengas una buena vida\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi expectativa en un contexto de citas (para ella como rol \"mujer con la que sigo saliendo\") era que pasar\u00edamos alg\u00fan tiempo hablando antes de que acabara la noche, y posiblemente incluso nos besar\u00edamos. Tambi\u00e9n que ella quisiera seguir en contacto y hablar de nuestra pr\u00f3xima cita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El mundo me invita a reconsiderar mis expectativas respecto a esta mujer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para el papel de \"inter\u00e9s rom\u00e1ntico femenino\", mis expectativas -inter\u00e9s sostenido, respuestas r\u00e1pidas de la mujer en cuesti\u00f3n- son adecuadas y encajan bien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de la cita continuamos en contacto - sin embargo, siento que sus respuestas toman un tiempo significativo, frustrando de nuevo mis expectativas de ella como \"inter\u00e9s rom\u00e1ntico\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como siguiente paso, cuando se frustran las expectativas, es importante comunicarse para ver si hay un malentendido. Si una persona realmente quiere desempe\u00f1ar el papel Y es capaz de desempe\u00f1arlo con un poco de orientaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si las expectativas siguen frustr\u00e1ndose despu\u00e9s de la comunicaci\u00f3n, es muy beneficioso desprenderse de las expectativas - Y del papel que se asocia a estas expectativas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hay muchas personas hermosas, de coraz\u00f3n c\u00e1lido y profundamente comprometidas en este planeta: tu papel de \"pareja rom\u00e1ntica\" puede ser y ser\u00e1 ocupado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seguir teniendo expectativas de alguien que no puede o no quiere cumplirlas es una locura. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto de HS Spender<\/a> en Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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With some other employees, e.g. the developer who is building businessbreeze.de for…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=462"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":467,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462\/revisions\/467"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}