{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"VitalMeaning","provider_url":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr","title":"Is it reasonable to try and control this? - VitalMeaning","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"jRbeYAcWLq\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/is-it-reasonable-to-try-and-control-this\/\">Est-il raisonnable d'essayer de contr\u00f4ler cela ?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/is-it-reasonable-to-try-and-control-this\/embed\/#?secret=jRbeYAcWLq\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&quot; Le droit \u00e0 l&#039;information et \u00e0 la libert\u00e9 d&#039;expression &quot; - VitalMeaning\" data-secret=\"jRbeYAcWLq\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>","description":"I am currently working on the &#8220;Perfectionism&#8221; course by Thais Gibson. She recommends to inquire, whether the particular thing we are trying to control is actually within our reasonable control. And if not, to stop trying to control it &#8211; and surrender to the outcome. As driven, perfectionistic people, we might feel that &#8220;nothing is [&hellip;]"}