{"id":115,"date":"2021-10-13T10:12:24","date_gmt":"2021-10-13T10:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=115"},"modified":"2021-10-13T10:14:55","modified_gmt":"2021-10-13T10:14:55","slug":"tirer-sur-le-levier-de-droite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/tirer-sur-le-levier-de-droite\/","title":{"rendered":"Tirez sur le levier de droite"},"content":{"rendered":"

Je reprends le sujet de \"Puis-je vraiment contr\u00f4ler \u00e7a ?\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tout ce que nous faisons est li\u00e9 \u00e0 un besoin que nous avons. En fait, il est pr\u00e9f\u00e9rable d'y penser comme \u00e0 une cha\u00eene de besoins \/ de concepts li\u00e9s qui s'imbriquent les uns dans les autres et qui servent \u00e0 combler un besoin fondamental. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Si j'obtiens cette femme, je pourrai \u00e9prouver un sentiment d'aventure, ce qui r\u00e9pond \u00e0 mon besoin de nouveaut\u00e9 et d'incertitude.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais que se passe-t-il si le levier est d\u00e9connect\u00e9 ? Et si le fait de tirer de plus en plus fort dessus ne donne aucun r\u00e9sultat ? Il n'y a pas de mouvement ? Vous laissant avec un sentiment de d\u00e9sespoir et de perte de contr\u00f4le ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ensuite, vous devez tirer sur un DIFFERENT <\/strong>levier. Le besoin doit toujours \u00eatre satisfait. Mais vous avez \u00e0 nouveau le contr\u00f4le, car vous utilisez un levier qui... connecte <\/strong>\u00e0 la cha\u00eene des besoins. Cela peut fonctionner d'une mani\u00e8re diff\u00e9rente de celle attendue, mais cela VA fonctionner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un exemple tir\u00e9 de ma vie : former des personnes pour un travail particulier est pas <\/strong>toujours possible (ils peuvent \u00eatre incapables). Mais il est possible d'engager le droite <\/strong>des personnes, que vous pouvez former. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La fourche et le tournevis<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Avez-vous d\u00e9j\u00e0 essay\u00e9 d'utiliser une fourchette pour visser une vis ? Non ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le tournevis est l'outil ad\u00e9quat pour cela. Tous nos concepts sont en fait des outils, des instruments permettant de r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 certains besoins - aussi abstraits soient-ils.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le concept d'amour est \u00e9galement un tel outil - pour r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 nos besoins de compagnie, de protection, de stimulation intellectuelle, de s\u00e9curit\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arr\u00eatons d'utiliser des fourches pour les vis et trouvons des tournevis. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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