{"id":141,"date":"2021-11-17T10:48:50","date_gmt":"2021-11-17T10:48:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=141"},"modified":"2021-11-17T10:48:51","modified_gmt":"2021-11-17T10:48:51","slug":"reactions-au-passe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/reactions-au-passe\/","title":{"rendered":"R\u00e9actions au pass\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Alors que nous parlions en t\u00eate \u00e0 t\u00eate, j'ai remarqu\u00e9 que mon fr\u00e8re avait quelques miettes sur les l\u00e8vres. J'ai tendu la main pour les enlever (sans vraiment y penser). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et mon fr\u00e8re s'est instinctivement retir\u00e9. J'ai expliqu\u00e9 qu'il y avait quelques miettes que je voulais enlever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0, j'ai eu une r\u00e9v\u00e9lation : mon fr\u00e8re ne r\u00e9agissait pas au fait que je voulais enlever les miettes. Il r\u00e9agissait \u00e0 ses exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es. 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