{"id":192,"date":"2022-01-05T08:05:22","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T08:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=192"},"modified":"2022-01-05T08:06:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T08:06:44","slug":"si-vous-nobtenez-pas-ce-que-vous-voulez-faites-un-pas-en-arriere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/si-vous-nobtenez-pas-ce-que-vous-voulez-faites-un-pas-en-arriere\/","title":{"rendered":"Si vous n'arrivez pas \u00e0 obtenir ce que vous voulez, prenez du recul."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Disons que vous \u00eates tomb\u00e9 amoureux d'une personne (ou d'un client, d'une id\u00e9e, d'une maison, ...). Et qu'elle n'est pas disponible, pour une raison quelconque.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vous pourriez d\u00e9sesp\u00e9rer, vous pourriez commencer \u00e0 vous sentir malheureux et frustr\u00e9. 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