{"id":197,"date":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=197"},"modified":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","slug":"pour-atteindre-mon-objectif-jai-besoin-que-lautre-personne-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/pour-atteindre-mon-objectif-jai-besoin-que-lautre-personne-change\/","title":{"rendered":"Pour atteindre mon objectif, j'ai besoin que l'autre personne change."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\"Si je pouvais les faire s'ouvrir un peu plus\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Ils sont toujours si distants\" ou \"Ils sont toujours sur moi, ne peuvent-ils pas me laisser tranquille ?\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il semble que, si seulement cette autre personne changeait, le monde se transformerait en arc-en-ciel et en soleil pour vous. 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Ou pensez-vous qu'exercer un contr\u00f4le maximal sur une situation vous aidera \u00e0 la g\u00e9rer et \u00e0 vous prot\u00e9ger ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il est temps de l\u00e2cher prise. C'est un \"marteau\" inefficace qui peut briser des relations d\u00e9licates. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personne n'aime \u00eatre contr\u00f4l\u00e9 (sauf les adeptes du BDSM, je suppose). Oui, les gens veulent \u00eatre dirig\u00e9s, mais ils ne veulent pas \u00eatre contraints au-del\u00e0 d'un certain point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Si vous exag\u00e9rez le contr\u00f4le, vous perdrez en fait le contr\u00f4le. 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