{"id":383,"date":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=383"},"modified":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","modified_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","slug":"persister-malgre-le-rejet-dune-superpuissance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/persister-malgre-le-rejet-dune-superpuissance\/","title":{"rendered":"Pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer malgr\u00e9 le rejet : un super pouvoir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un couteau peut \u00eatre utilis\u00e9 pour couper du pain. Un couteau peut \u00eatre utilis\u00e9 pour blesser d'autres personnes et pour se blesser soi-m\u00eame. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer malgr\u00e9 le rejet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

C'est une habitude, une chose que j'ai prise dans mon enfance. Mon p\u00e8re pouvait \u00eatre impr\u00e9visible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je me souviens tr\u00e8s bien du sentiment de confiance qui se construisait lentement avec lui, avant d'\u00eatre bris\u00e9 par un autre \u00e9pisode impr\u00e9visible - des mots durs, voire de la violence (envers des choses, mais dans certains cas malheureusement envers moi ou envers mon fr\u00e8re). Je me souviens d'avoir march\u00e9 sur des \u0153ufs, de m'\u00eatre sentie incertaine et de m'\u00eatre beaucoup interrog\u00e9e. J'essayais de comprendre ce que je pouvais faire de bien pour rester en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Pour rester en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 en le contr\u00f4lant par mes actions. En faisant plus d'efforts<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enchev\u00eatrement et cod\u00e9pendance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Exactement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

J'utilisais le couteau de la pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance malgr\u00e9 le rejet pour rester en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le couteau me murmure : \"Quand tu es rejet\u00e9, essaie encore plus fort\". Pouvez-vous comprendre ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rencontres \u00e0 l'\u00e2ge adulte<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Cette habitude m'a conduit \u00e0 m'accrocher \u00e0 des filles qui me rejetaient. \"Quand on est rejet\u00e9, il faut essayer encore plus\".<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J'utilisais le couteau contre moi-m\u00eame et, d'une certaine mani\u00e8re, je l'utilisais aussi contre ces femmes (en les ennuyant). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce n'est qu'\u00e0 partir de N que j'ai vraiment travaill\u00e9 sur ce sch\u00e9ma et que je l'ai corrig\u00e9. J'ai arr\u00eat\u00e9 de courir apr\u00e8s les femmes qui n'\u00e9taient pas disponibles ou qui avaient dit non.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eame si je pense \u00e0 certaines de ces femmes de temps en temps (par exemple, lors d'une rencontre r\u00e9cente avec une femme qui vit \u00e0 Munich), les poursuivre est une impasse. Je me rends compte que cela n'a pas fonctionn\u00e9 pour une raison ou pour une autre, et que les raisons sont susceptibles de persister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le super pouvoir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Or, un couteau est un outil - et un outil tr\u00e8s utile. Imaginez que vous deviez pr\u00e9parer des aliments sans couteau !<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nous avons besoin de couteaux dans nos vies, et nous \u00e9galement <\/strong>Il faut les utiliser \u00e0 bon escient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De m\u00eame, ce \"persister malgr\u00e9 le rejet\" est un super-pouvoir, lorsqu'il est appliqu\u00e9 correctement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le tout est de le faire s\u00e9quentiellement<\/strong>Les personnes qui ne sont pas en mesure d'obtenir de l'aide pour la recherche d'un partenaire romantique (en d\u00e9pit du rejet), mais pour la recherche d'une personne qui n'est pas en mesure d'obtenir une aide. AUTRES <\/strong>les partenaires romantiques. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pour persister malgr\u00e9 le rejet. Mais pour changer la personne avec laquelle vous essayez de sortir. Changer jusqu'\u00e0 ce que vous rencontriez une personne qui ne vous rejettera pas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceci. Au lieu d'abandonner, au lieu de me lamenter sur mon enfance et sur le fait qu'elle m'a co\u00fbt\u00e9 des ann\u00e9es (en fait, quelque chose comme deux d\u00e9cennies !) de fr\u00e9quentation, je peux accepter le fait que j'ai eu le don unique d'avoir cet outil \u00e0 ma disposition. Je sais comment persister malgr\u00e9 le rejet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il s'est av\u00e9r\u00e9 utile dans les affaires. Il sera maintenant utile, utilis\u00e9 de la bonne mani\u00e8re, dans les relations amoureuses. Je continue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Photo par Daniil Onischenko<\/a> sur Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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