{"id":409,"date":"2023-07-17T05:56:41","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:56:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=409"},"modified":"2023-07-17T05:56:42","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:56:42","slug":"pourquoi-il-est-prudent-de-faire-des-choix","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/why-its-safe-to-make-choices\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi il est prudent de faire des choix"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samedi dernier, j'ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 la r\u00e9union des 20 ans de ma classe (la r\u00e9union de remise des dipl\u00f4mes, Abiturtreffen). Je voulais retrouver les gens avec qui j'\u00e9tais \u00e0 l'\u00e9cole, voir comment leur vie avait \u00e9volu\u00e9 (et, oui, comparer comment ma vie avait \u00e9volu\u00e9). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il n'y avait qu'un seul probl\u00e8me : un \"Munich Singles Club Meetup\" avait lieu le m\u00eame soir. C'est \u00e0 cette occasion que j'ai rencontr\u00e9 ma seule petite amie jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent. Ce Meetup compte plus de 6 000 membres et j'avais vraiment envie de retenter ma chance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J'en ai discut\u00e9 avec mon ami T., et il \u00e9tait pr\u00eat \u00e0 m'accompagner. Nous nous sommes mis d'accord sur le fait que je devais d'abord me faire une id\u00e9e de la r\u00e9union de classe, puis d\u00e9cider si je voulais y rester ou aller \u00e0 la rencontre des c\u00e9libataires. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au d\u00e9part, je n'ai pas eu de conversations int\u00e9ressantes lors de la r\u00e9union de classe, ce qui m'a sembl\u00e9 un peu ennuyeux. Cependant, au bout d'une heure et demie, je me suis retrouv\u00e9e \u00e0 discuter avec deux anciens camarades de classe sur des sujets int\u00e9ressants (les relations et le d\u00e9roulement de leur vie). C'\u00e9tait vraiment fascinant de voir \u00e0 quel point certaines personnes avaient gagn\u00e9 en confiance en soi, et \u00e0 quel point je voyais que certaines personnes \u00e9taient du c\u00f4t\u00e9 de la satisfaction des gens, du point de vue comportemental. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J'\u00e9tais tent\u00e9e de rester \u00e0 la r\u00e9union de classe, d'un autre c\u00f4t\u00e9, T. attendait et j'avais d\u00e9j\u00e0 report\u00e9 mon d\u00e9part une fois, car j'appr\u00e9ciais les conversations. Je ne voulais pas le faire attendre, et je ne voulais pas non plus manquer l'occasion de rencontrer une jolie femme c\u00e9libataire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C'est du moins ce que je pensais ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La rencontre des c\u00e9libataires<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J'ai appel\u00e9 T. et nous sommes all\u00e9s \u00e0 la rencontre des c\u00e9libataires. Il se d\u00e9roulait dans un bar karaok\u00e9 pr\u00e8s de l'Ostbahnhof \u00e0 Munich. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imm\u00e9diatement, plusieurs choses me sont apparues \u00e9videntes : <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Il y avait beaucoup d'hommes et seulement deux femmes.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Aucune des deux femmes pr\u00e9sentes ne m'int\u00e9ressait.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L'endroit n'\u00e9tait pas id\u00e9al pour faire connaissance avec les gens, car la musique \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s forte.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L'\u00e9v\u00e9nement avait \u00e9t\u00e9 annonc\u00e9 comme \"amenez une amie gratuitement\". Je comprends maintenant pourquoi : il y avait beaucoup plus d'hommes que de femmes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au bout d'un moment, j'ai chuchot\u00e9 \u00e0 mon ami : \"C'est un rat\u00e9\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le groupe jouait \u00e0 un jeu o\u00f9 chacun \u00e9crivait deux questions sur des petits bouts de papier, puis d'autres personnes tiraient au sort ces questions et y r\u00e9pondaient. L'une de mes questions a \u00e9galement \u00e9t\u00e9 tir\u00e9e au sort : \"Quel est le dernier endroit o\u00f9 vous avez voyag\u00e9 et qui a vraiment touch\u00e9 votre c\u0153ur ?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La difficult\u00e9 de ce jeu r\u00e9sidait dans le fait que le groupe \u00e9tait un peu trop nombreux pour que l'on puisse se comprendre pendant que la musique \u00e9tait diffus\u00e9e \u00e0 plein volume par les haut-parleurs. J'ai m\u00eame demand\u00e9 \u00e0 l'une des jolies serveuses de baisser la musique d'un cran, ce qu'elle a fait. Mais c'\u00e9tait encore trop fort !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L'\u00e9v\u00e9nement devait durer au moins un an. <strong>autre <\/strong>heure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">S'\u00e9vader<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Soudain, deux autres femmes sont arriv\u00e9es, qui ne me correspondaient pas non plus. La femme qui organisait l'\u00e9v\u00e9nement (qui \u00e9tait la plus s\u00e9duisante des femmes pr\u00e9sentes) a divis\u00e9 le groupe en deux parties - mon amie et moi nous sommes retrouv\u00e9es dans deux groupes distincts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je me suis dit : \"C'est l'occasion ou la possibilit\u00e9 de partir, il faut que j'agisse\". J'\u00e9tais en train de parler \u00e0 de parfaits inconnus et j'avais m\u00eame du mal \u00e0 comprendre leurs r\u00e9ponses \u00e0 des questions al\u00e9atoires, alors que je manquais ma r\u00e9union de remise des dipl\u00f4mes ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aller au Meetup des c\u00e9libataires de Munich \u00e9tait clairement le mauvais choix pour moi ce soir-l\u00e0. Cependant, avant d'y aller, je n'aurais pas pu me rendre compte que c'\u00e9tait en effet le mauvais choix. Si j'\u00e9tais rest\u00e9 \u00e0 la r\u00e9union de remise des dipl\u00f4mes, je me serais probablement demand\u00e9 si je n'\u00e9tais pas pass\u00e9 \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 de femmes vraiment magnifiques et excitantes, voire m\u00eame \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 d'une autre relation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J'ai trouv\u00e9 un plan. J'ai v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 mon t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, comme si j'avais re\u00e7u un message, je me suis excus\u00e9 de mon sous-groupe et j'ai attir\u00e9 T. sur le c\u00f4t\u00e9. J'ai expliqu\u00e9 que je ne le sentais pas vraiment et que je pr\u00e9f\u00e9rais de loin retourner \u00e0 ma r\u00e9union de fin d'\u00e9tudes, ou m\u00eame regarder un film avec T., plut\u00f4t que de rester \u00e0 l'\u00e9v\u00e9nement du club des c\u00e9libataires de Munich. T. \u00e9tait du m\u00eame avis, il s'\u00e9tait r\u00e9sign\u00e9 \u00e0 son sort, mais ne l'appr\u00e9ciait pas vraiment non plus. Je suis alors all\u00e9e voir l'organisatrice et lui ai dit que nous avions soudainement \u00e9t\u00e9 appel\u00e9s pour une affaire urgente, o\u00f9 nous devions nous rendre imm\u00e9diatement. Elle m'a r\u00e9pondu : \"mais tu n'as m\u00eame pas encore rencontr\u00e9 ta petite amie !\". - J'avais d\u00e9j\u00e0 fait part au groupe de mes raisons et de mon pass\u00e9 pour participer \u00e0 l'\u00e9v\u00e9nement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je lui ai r\u00e9pondu que nous reviendrions peut-\u00eatre, si tout se passait bien, mais que nous n'\u00e9tions pas encore s\u00fbrs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bien s\u00fbr, il n'\u00e9tait pas question de revenir \u00e0 l'\u00e9v\u00e9nement - je venais de nous faire gagner au moins une heure que nous aurions perdue autrement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La fin heureuse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nous sommes retourn\u00e9s \u00e0 la r\u00e9union de classe, T., qui connaissait plusieurs autres personnes de mon \u00e9cole, y a \u00e9galement particip\u00e9. Il a vraiment appr\u00e9ci\u00e9 la r\u00e9union de classe, et moi aussi. J'ai fini par rester jusqu'\u00e0 environ 3 heures du matin avec quelques gars. Il \u00e9tait \u00e9galement facile de comprendre mes camarades de classe, car il n'y avait pas de musique forte diffus\u00e9e par les haut-parleurs. Il s'agissait \u00e9galement de personnes avec lesquelles je partageais une certaine histoire. Et j'\u00e9tais vraiment curieux de les conna\u00eetre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pourquoi c'est important<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faire des choix est source d'incertitude. Vous vous trouvez \u00e0 un carrefour, o\u00f9 vous pouvez choisir d'aller \u00e0 gauche ou \u00e0 droite. <strong>Quel chemin prenez-vous ?<\/strong> \"Cela d\u00e9pend de l'endroit o\u00f9 vous voulez aller\", dirait le sage conseil du chat du Cheshire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais en fait, ce que l'on craint vraiment, c'est de faire le mauvais choix, si bien que l'on finit parfois par ne pas faire de choix du tout. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dans mon histoire, j'ai fini par faire un mauvais choix en me rendant au Munich Club Singles Meetup - un \u00e9v\u00e9nement auquel je ne participerai plus jamais. Dans le pass\u00e9, cela avait \u00e9t\u00e9 un bon choix pour moi, car j'y avais rencontr\u00e9 ma seule petite amie jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent. Ce samedi-l\u00e0, il y a une semaine, c'\u00e9tait du temps perdu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cependant, <strong>Je devais faire le mauvais choix <\/strong>de comprendre que c'\u00e9tait le mauvais choix. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si je n'avais pas fait ce choix,<strong> J'aurais regrett\u00e9<\/strong> que je n'y sois pas all\u00e9 et que je ne me sois pas donn\u00e9 la chance de rencontrer une femme merveilleuse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J'ai pris le mauvais chemin et j'ai entra\u00een\u00e9 T. dans cette aventure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais une fois que j'ai compris qu'il n'\u00e9tait pas utile de rester sur cette voie, les deux ont \u00e9t\u00e9 mis \u00e0 l'\u00e9cart. <strong>T. et moi avons litt\u00e9ralement fait marche arri\u00e8re et pris le bon chemin<\/strong>, la meilleure voie pour ce soir-l\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sur chaque chemin que vous empruntez, vous trouverez des p\u00e9pites d'information qui vous diront si ce chemin vaut la peine d'\u00eatre emprunt\u00e9 et poursuivi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9coutez le chemin et ce qu'il vous dit. Vous pouvez toujours revenir sur la d\u00e9cision que vous avez prise - et c'est ce qui rend la prise de d\u00e9cision s\u00fbre : vous obtiendrez des informations suppl\u00e9mentaires une fois que vous vous serez engag\u00e9 dans une d\u00e9cision, et vous pourrez alors prendre une nouvelle d\u00e9cision. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Allez-y, donnez une chance \u00e0 cette relation dont vous n'\u00eates pas s\u00fbr, voyez si elle vous convient. Donnez-lui un peu de temps. Si ce n'est pas le cas, faites marche arri\u00e8re et cherchez d'autres opportunit\u00e9s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tous nos v\u0153ux de r\u00e9ussite dans vos voyages !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Photo par <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@stachmann?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Richard Stachmann<\/a> sur <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/a-woman-wearing-a-t-shirt-with-a-picture-of-a-womans-face-27NSIzy0Fr8?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday I was at my 20 year class reunion (the graduation meeting, Abiturtreffen). I wanted to connect with the people I went to school with, see how their lives developed (and yes compare how my life has developed). There was only one problem: a &#8220;Munich Singles Club Meetup&#8221; was happening on the same evening. 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