{"id":55,"date":"2021-08-29T11:15:45","date_gmt":"2021-08-29T11:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=55"},"modified":"2021-08-29T11:19:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-29T11:19:47","slug":"reprogrammer-la-conclusion-sur-les-femmes-emotionnellement-indisponibles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/fr\/reprogrammer-la-conclusion-sur-les-femmes-emotionnellement-indisponibles\/","title":{"rendered":"Reprogrammer la conclusion sur les femmes \u00e9motionnellement indisponibles"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"688\" height=\"811\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-56\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image.png 688w, https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image-255x300.png 255w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 688px) 100vw, 688px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Une partie de mon travail avec le comportement autodestructeur (SDB) consistant \u00e0 courir apr\u00e8s des femmes \u00e9motionnellement indisponibles et \u00e0 rejeter les femmes qui s'int\u00e9ressent \u00e0 moi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il est important de distiller les enseignements tir\u00e9s de ce travail dans des phrases faciles \u00e0 retenir, c'est pourquoi mes conclusions erron\u00e9es (qui prennent la vie) et correctes (qui donnent la vie) sont \u00e9num\u00e9r\u00e9es ci-dessous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le facteur cl\u00e9 de mon comportement est<span style=\"background-color: #ffff00;\"> cette peur d'\u00eatre dans une relation sans limites.<\/span> Ce qui est correct ! C'est la bonne chose d'avoir peur d'une relation sans limites (relation enchev\u00eatr\u00e9e). Beaucoup de douleur peut en r\u00e9sulter.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Le comportement consistant \u00e0 rechercher des femmes \u00e9motionnellement indisponibles, qui fixent des limites ext\u00e9rieures par d\u00e9faut ( !) est cependant MAUVAIS - il conduira \u00e0 des douleurs r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9es. J'\u00e9viterai donc les \"relations sans limites\", <span style=\"background-color: #ffff00;\">mais je n'\u00e9viterai PAS la douleur (qui est en fait la chose que je veux \u00e9viter !).<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le bon comportement consiste \u00e0 FIXER des limites avec les femmes \u00e9motionnellement disponibles de mani\u00e8re saine, et \u00e0 \u00c9VITER les personnes qui n'acceptent pas les limites saines. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De cette fa\u00e7on, je suis en contr\u00f4le, et je peux me garder en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Les limites externes ne fonctionnent pas - c'est compter sur quelqu'un d'autre pour se montrer pour vous 100 % de la mani\u00e8re dont vous avez besoin - cela ne va pas arriver. C'est simplement irr\u00e9aliste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et il est s\u00fbr et n\u00e9cessaire de fixer des limites. Avec les bonnes personnes, la relation s'am\u00e9liorera. Avec les mauvaises personnes, la relation implosera avec le temps (car elles ne sont pas capables de g\u00e9rer des limites saines). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Faux.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Avec les femmes \u00e9motionnellement indisponibles, il y aura des limites int\u00e9gr\u00e9es, et donc ces femmes sont en s\u00e9curit\u00e9.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Une promesse pr\u00e9cise<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c<strong>Par activement <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\" class=\"underline\">param\u00e8tre <\/span>mes limites, je peux avoir des relations s\u00fbres avec de nombreuses femmes. Mes propres limites me permettront de rester en s\u00e9curit\u00e9.\"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Peur mythique<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Toutes les relations sont sans limites, et donc effrayantes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La peur r\u00e9elle<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\"S'appuyer sur des limites externes causera de la douleur.\"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"416\" height=\"313\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-57\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image-1.png 416w, https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/image-1-300x226.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 416px) 100vw, 416px\" \/><figcaption>@jancanty \/ unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Part of my work with the self-defeating behavior (SDB) about chasing emotionally unavailable women and rejecting the women who are interested in me. It&#8217;s important to distill the learnings from the work into sentences which are easy to stick into your mind, therefore my wrong (life-taking) and right (life-giving) conclusions are listed below. 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