{"id":197,"date":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=197"},"modified":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","slug":"per-raggiungere-il-mio-obiettivo-ho-bisogno-che-laltra-persona-cambi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/it\/per-raggiungere-il-mio-obiettivo-ho-bisogno-che-laltra-persona-cambi\/","title":{"rendered":"Per raggiungere il mio obiettivo ho bisogno che l'altra persona cambi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\"Se solo potessi farli aprire un po' di pi\u00f9\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Sono sempre cos\u00ec distanti\" o \"Mi stanno sempre addosso, non possono lasciarmi in pace?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sembra che, se solo quest'altra persona cambiasse, il mondo si trasformerebbe in arcobaleni e sole per voi. Raggiungereste magicamente tutti i vostri obiettivi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Risveglio<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ricordate: questi sono <strong>il tuo <\/strong>obiettivi, non gli obiettivi dell'altra persona. Cos\u00ec essi <strong>solo cambiamento <\/strong>per raggiungere <strong>i propri obiettivi<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se i tuoi obiettivi coincidono con i loro obiettivi, allora la magia accadr\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Altrimenti, se in qualche modo riuscite a costringerli, persuaderli, convincerli a cambiare, ci sar\u00e0 del risentimento. E mancanza di seguito. Sconvolgimento da entrambe le parti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Il cambiamento \u00e8 all'interno di  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Il cambiamento deve avvenire dentro di te. Invece di voler cambiare l'altra persona (\"il mio DA deve imparare ad avvicinarsi\") chiediti: quale obiettivo stai cercando di raggiungere? Quali strumenti stai usando per questo scopo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cercare di cambiare le altre persone \u00e8 uno strumento molto inefficace. Non \u00e8 una tua responsabilit\u00e0, e nella maggior parte dei casi \u00e8 impossibile cambiare le altre persone in modo efficace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ricordate: sono passati attraverso la loro esperienza di vita, e le scelte che fanno, le ragioni che stanno dietro sono costruite sulla logica della loro esperienza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Non \u00e8 possibile trasferire direttamente la vostra esperienza e renderla reale per loro. Possono entrare in risonanza con voi solo nella misura in cui anche loro hanno vissuto esperienze simili. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Per i miei amici con problemi di controllo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p> Ti tranquillizzi prendendo il controllo di una situazione? O pensi che esercitare il massimo controllo su una situazione ti aiuti a gestirla e a proteggerti? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c8 tempo di lasciar andare. 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