{"id":33,"date":"2021-08-24T09:39:03","date_gmt":"2021-08-24T09:39:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=33"},"modified":"2021-08-25T08:06:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-25T08:06:13","slug":"confini-nelle-relazioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/it\/confini-nelle-relazioni\/","title":{"rendered":"Confini nelle relazioni"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le relazioni esistono per un motivo. Sono una forma di sostegno reciproco, di poter superare meglio le tempeste della vita insieme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come tali hanno bisogno di soddisfare i bisogni degli individui nella relazione - hanno bisogno di soddisfare meglio le esigenze<\/strong>che ogni individuo nella relazione sarebbe in grado di soddisfarli da solo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovremmo tenerlo a mente quando le relazioni falliscono \/ si rompono: questo significa che i bisogni non sono stati soddisfatti! (Naturalmente la stessa cosa accade quando le persone tradiscono - stanno cercando di soddisfare i loro bisogni, ad esempio di attenzione, di essere speciali, ecc. che non sono soddisfatti nella relazione primaria).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La pi\u00f9 grande tragedia \u00e8 quando queste rotture avrebbero potuto essere evitate con una migliore comunicazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ponendo dei limiti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stabilire dei limiti: questa \u00e8 la comunicazione su ci\u00f2 di cui hai bisogno e ci\u00f2 di cui non hai bisogno. Cosa ti fa male, cosa ti d\u00e0 beneficio. Cosa vi aspettate. Di cosa avete bisogno per sentirvi felici in una relazione. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec importante comunicare questo! Cos\u00ec difficile a volte, sembra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potremmo aver capito da situazioni passate che porre dei limiti non era auspicabile - perch\u00e9 le persone a cui abbiamo cercato di porre questi limiti si sono sentite minacciate nei loro bisogni, e hanno agito di conseguenza (stringendo su di noi che poniamo dei limiti, invece di rendersi conto che stanno andando verso una situazione di non vittoria). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rinunciare ai confini \u00e8 una cosa molto inefficace <\/strong>cosa da fare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'eccesso di donazione porta al risentimento e all'aumento delle aspettative dell'altra persona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In effetti, sto lavorando proprio ora sulla fobia dell'impegno (specificamente sulle donne), e vedo che la mia paura di porre dei limiti con le donne (e quindi di ferirle - mettendomi in pericolo in questo modo) mi tiene FUORI dalle relazioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(\"Fanculo, finch\u00e9 non potr\u00f2 stabilire dei limiti, non entrer\u00f2 in una relazione\").<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma questo \u00e8 un problema che sto creando io stesso non ponendo questi limiti in primo luogo. Non accettando che hanno bisogno di essere stabiliti, al fine di avere effettivamente una relazione sana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ho l'idea giusta di non voler avere relazioni malsane e senza confini. Ma non sto nemmeno dando a queste donne la possibilit\u00e0 di rispettare i miei confini. Semplicemente scappo da loro, dando per scontato che ogni donna mancher\u00e0 di rispetto ai miei confini (e che non posso farci niente). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quali sono i tuoi pensieri su questo, gentile lettore? Pensi che ogni donna mancher\u00e0 di rispetto ai confini onesti? Pensi che quelle che lo fanno, ripetutamente, possano presentarsi alla relazione nel modo in cui essa richiede loro?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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