{"id":390,"date":"2023-05-11T07:57:25","date_gmt":"2023-05-11T07:57:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=390"},"modified":"2023-05-11T07:57:25","modified_gmt":"2023-05-11T07:57:25","slug":"i-costi-nascosti-dellessere-un-cazzone-con-le-altre-persone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/it\/i-costi-nascosti-dellessere-un-cazzone-con-le-altre-persone\/","title":{"rendered":"I costi nascosti dell'essere stronzi con gli altri"},"content":{"rendered":"

A Monaco avevo un amico, A., con cui facevo molte cose. Facevamo passeggiate, parlavamo. Un capodanno l'ho trascorso con lui, guardando dei film. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Passavamo anche del tempo insieme nell'appartamento della sua ragazza. Questa ragazza era un po' pi\u00f9 grande di A.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una volta, mentre eravamo in cucina e stavamo per servirci del cibo, la fidanzata entr\u00f2 e disse: \"No, non mangiatelo, \u00e8 vecchio\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A. ha detto: \"No, sei vecchio\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da zero a eroe. Non. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questa storia mi \u00e8 rimasta impressa nella mente. Pi\u00f9 tardi, quando mi trasferii a Lipsia, si presentarono tutti, tranne A. - mi resi conto che non me la sentivo di chiamarlo e di chiedergli perch\u00e9 non fosse venuto. Non mi sentivo a mio agio con lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La lezione: se fai lo stronzo con gli altri, i tuoi amici se ne accorgono. E a un certo punto non avrete pi\u00f9 amici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siate educati e rispettosi. Non agite passivamente. Se non siete soddisfatti di qualcuno, per l'amor di Dio, lasciatelo e andate avanti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto di Nina Strehl<\/a> su Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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