{"id":458,"date":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=458"},"modified":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","slug":"come-appare-quando-due-persone-si-scatenano-a-vicenda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/it\/come-appare-quando-due-persone-si-scatenano-a-vicenda\/","title":{"rendered":"Come appare, quando due persone si innescano a vicenda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A un evento di networking a Londra ho incontrato un gruppo di persone e siamo andati insieme al bar \"The Alchemist\". Naturalmente, sono stati coinvolti alcuni drink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uno dei ragazzi - chiamiamolo Harry - si \u00e8 messo a chiacchierare con due donne a un tavolo vicino, e presto io e altri due signori lo abbiamo seguito. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry e una delle donne erano impegnati in un dialogo. Ho iniziato ad ascoltare e presto il dialogo si \u00e8 trasformato in Harry che diceva cose come: \"Quello che dici non ha importanza per me, io sono tranquillo\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da quello che ho capito, Harry ha pensato che lei lo stesse accusando di mentire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La donna stessa diceva cose come: \"Ti stai mettendo una maschera\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cominciarono a girare in tondo, ripetendo le affermazioni dell'altro, cercando in qualche modo di dimostrare i propri punti di vista. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dopo una decina di minuti, la donna ha chiesto al suo accompagnatore di andarsene e sono passati a un altro tavolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry si rivolse a me e continu\u00f2 a spiegare che amava le donne e che le stava dicendo la verit\u00e0, che era una delle persone pi\u00f9 oneste, ecc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gli ho detto di lasciar perdere e che ovviamente io so e lui sa che sta dicendo la verit\u00e0. Ma che alcune persone percepiscono le cose in modo diverso e che \u00e8 uno spreco di energia cercare di dimostrare loro il contrario. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L'ho osservato un paio di volte, quando due persone sono bloccate in una discussione: spesso si tratta di certi schemi e punti di dolore che vengono innescati, e le persone cercano di evitare il dolore che hanno vissuto in passato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Qualche tempo fa, ho scritto il post sul blog \"<a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/it\/come-si-presenta-il-non-farsi-innescare\/\">Come si fa a non farsi innescare?<\/a>\". Immaginate come sarebbe potuta essere diversa la conversazione se quella donna e Harry avessero <strong>carenti <\/strong>i singoli fattori scatenanti - forse avrebbero potuto ridere dell'equivoco e avrebbero potuto farsi dei nuovi amici quella sera. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ogni percezione \u00e8 una scommessa. E si basa molto sul nostro passato. 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