{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"VitalMeaning","provider_url":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/ja","title":"Pull on the right lever - VitalMeaning","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"nusjQbVfDw\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/ja\/pull-on-the-right-lever\/\">\u53f3\u306e\u30ec\u30d0\u30fc\u3092\u5f15\u304f<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/ja\/pull-on-the-right-lever\/embed\/#?secret=nusjQbVfDw\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&quot;\u6b63\u3057\u3044\u30ec\u30d0\u30fc\u3092\u5f15\u304f&quot; - VitalMeaning\" data-secret=\"nusjQbVfDw\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>","description":"Picking up the topic of &#8220;Can I actually control this?&#8221; up again. Everything we do is connected to some need we have. Or actually, it&#8217;s better to think of this as a chain of needs \/ linked concepts interlocking which serve to fill a core need. &#8220;If I get this woman, I will be able to experience a sense of adventure, which serves my need for novelty and uncertainty.&#8221; But what if the lever is disconnected? What if pulling harder and harder on it doesn&#8217;t yield any result? There&#8217;s no movement? Leaving you with a feeling of desperation, and being out of control? Then you have to pull on a [&hellip;]"}