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Het onderwerp \"Kan ik dit echt controleren?\" weer oppakken. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alles wat we doen is verbonden met een behoefte die we hebben. Of eigenlijk is het beter om dit te zien als een keten van behoeften \/ gekoppelde concepten die in elkaar grijpen en dienen om een kernbehoefte te vervullen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Als ik deze vrouw krijg, kan ik een avontuur beleven, wat mijn behoefte aan nieuwigheid en onzekerheid dient.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maar wat als de hendel is losgekoppeld? Wat als er harder en harder aan trekken geen resultaat oplevert? Er is geen beweging? Je achterlatend met een gevoel van wanhoop, en geen controle meer hebben? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dan moet je trekken aan een VERSCHILLENDE <\/strong>hefboom. De behoefte MOET nog steeds vervuld worden. Maar je hebt weer controle - omdat je eigenlijk een hefboom gebruikt die verbindt <\/strong>aan de keten van behoeften. Het kan op een andere manier werken dan verwacht, maar het ZAL werken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Een voorbeeld uit mijn leven: mensen opleiden voor een bepaalde baan is niet <\/strong>altijd mogelijk (ze zouden onbekwaam kunnen zijn). Maar het is mogelijk om de rechts <\/strong>mensen, die je KAN trainen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De vork en de schroevendraaier<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Heb je ooit geprobeerd een vork te gebruiken om een schroef in te draaien? Nee? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De schroevendraaier is daar het juiste gereedschap voor. Al onze concepten zijn eigenlijk werktuigen, gereedschappen om aan bepaalde behoeften te voldoen - hoe abstract die ook mogen zijn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Het begrip liefde is ook zo'n instrument - om te voorzien in onze behoefte aan gezelschap, bescherming, intellectuele stimulatie, veiligheid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laten we stoppen met het gebruik van vorken voor de schroeven en onszelf schroevendraaiers halen. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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