{"id":141,"date":"2021-11-17T10:48:50","date_gmt":"2021-11-17T10:48:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=141"},"modified":"2021-11-17T10:48:51","modified_gmt":"2021-11-17T10:48:51","slug":"reacties-op-het-verleden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/nl\/reacties-op-het-verleden\/","title":{"rendered":"Reacties op het verleden"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Terwijl we oog in oog stonden te praten, merkte ik dat mijn broer wat kruimels op zijn lippen had. Ik stak mijn hand uit om ze te verwijderen (zonder er echt bij na te denken). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En mijn broer trok zich instinctief terug. Ik legde uit dat er wat kruimels zijn die ik weg wilde halen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Op dat moment kreeg ik een inzicht: mijn broer reageerde niet op het feit dat ik de kruimels wilde verwijderen. Hij reageerde op zijn ervaringen uit het verleden. (Misschien ervaringen met mij, misschien met iemand anders). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Op deze manier, <strong>het heeft geen zin om zijn reactie persoonlijk op te vatten<\/strong>. Het is een reactie op het verleden, waar ik weinig van weet. Ik heb niet alles gezien wat hij heeft gezien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Als ik in zijn schoenen zou staan, zou ik misschien op een soortgelijke manier reageren.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/photo-1467931069275-f926df94342e-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-142\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/photo-1467931069275-f926df94342e-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/photo-1467931069275-f926df94342e-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/photo-1467931069275-f926df94342e-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/photo-1467931069275-f926df94342e.jpg 1074w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@jamie452\">Foto door Jamie Street \/ Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While we were talking face to face, I noticed that my brother had some crumbs on his lips. 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