{"id":42,"date":"2021-08-25T08:05:54","date_gmt":"2021-08-25T08:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=42"},"modified":"2021-08-25T08:05:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-25T08:05:54","slug":"horsewhisperer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/nl\/horsewhisperer\/","title":{"rendered":"Horsewhisperer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ik stuitte gisteren op een geweldige blog over paarden: Pferdefl\u00fcsterei<\/a> (in het Duits). Het kwam op een geweldig moment in mijn leven, en herinnerde me aan enkele fundamentele waarheden van menselijkheid en mededogen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ik denk dat veel van de dingen over een relatie met een paard (bijvoorbeeld eerlijk zijn, het niet onder druk zetten, begrip hebben voor zijn pijn...) ook van toepassing zijn op de relatie met mensen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Het is zo makkelijk om onze behoeften te vergeten en voorop te stellen, en er te gefocust op te zijn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En bekritiseren iedereen die niet aan hen voldoet als \"emotioneel onbeschikbare (vrouw)\", enz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maar deze vrouw - zij heeft haar eigen pijn. Deze blog herinnerde me eraan om haar op een zachte en begripvolle manier te behandelen. Ook al staat ze niet echt open voor een relatie met mij, ze is een mens en verdient het om met respect, eerlijkheid en compassie behandeld te worden. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misschien zal dit haar in staat stellen om enkele stappen te zetten op haar weg naar genezing en weer vertrouwen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dat is waar deze blog over gaat - over vertrouwen tussen paarden en mensen. Dat ze zacht behandeld zullen worden, met begrip. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dat, als een paard (een mens) zegt geen<\/strong>is er een reden - en iets om te onderzoeken, en te begrijpen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Een paard dat naar je kijkt, foto door Luisa Peter \/ unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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