{"id":458,"date":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=458"},"modified":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T11:01:50","slug":"hoe-ziet-het-eruit-als-twee-mensen-elkaar-triggeren","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/nl\/hoe-ziet-het-eruit-als-twee-mensen-elkaar-triggeren\/","title":{"rendered":"Hoe ziet het eruit als twee mensen elkaar triggeren?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Op een netwerkevenement in Londen ontmoette ik een groep mensen en we gingen samen naar \"the Alchemist\" bar. Natuurlijk werd er wat gedronken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Een van de jongens - laten we hem Harry noemen - maakte een praatje met twee vrouwen aan een tafel vlakbij, en al snel volgden ik en twee andere heren. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Harry en een van de vrouwen waren met elkaar in gesprek. Ik begon ernaar te luisteren, en al snel ging de dialoog over in Harry die dingen zei als: \"Niets van wat je zegt doet er toe voor mij, ik ben kalm.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Van wat ik begreep, had Harry het gevoel dat ze hem beschuldigde van liegen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De vrouw zelf zei dingen als: \"Je zet een masker op\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ze begonnen rondjes te draaien, herhaalden elkaars uitspraken en probeerden op een bepaalde manier hun individuele punten te bewijzen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na ongeveer tien minuten vroeg de vrouw haar metgezel om weg te gaan - ze gingen aan een andere tafel zitten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Harry wendde zich tot mezelf en bleef uitleggen dat hij van vrouwen houdt en dat hij haar de waarheid vertelde - dat hij een van de eerlijkste mensen is, enz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ik zei hem het los te laten, en dat ik natuurlijk weet en hij weet dat hij de waarheid spreekt. Maar dat sommige mensen dingen anders zien en dat het verspilde energie is om te proberen hen het tegendeel te bewijzen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ik heb dit nu een paar keer gezien, als twee mensen in een woordenwisseling verwikkeld raken - vaak gaat het dan om bepaalde patronen en pijnpunten die worden geactiveerd, en mensen proberen de pijn die ze in het verleden hebben ervaren te vermijden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Een tijdje geleden schreef ik de blogbijdrage \"Hoe ziet niet getriggerd worden eruit?<\/a>\". Stel je voor hoe anders het gesprek zou zijn geweest als die vrouw en Harry ontbrak <\/strong>de individuele triggers - misschien hadden ze het misverstand kunnen weglachen en hadden ze die avond nieuwe vrienden kunnen maken. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elke waarneming is een gok. En het is gebaseerd op ons verleden, heel erg zelfs. Pijn loslaten houdt in dat je een pijnlijk verleden loslaat door je een evenwichtiger heden en toekomst voor te stellen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hoe kom je van deze triggers af?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Een geweldig hulpmiddel om van deze triggers af te komen is de hulpmiddel voor emotionele verwerking (door Thais Gibson)<\/a>. Als je het consequent gebruikt, zal het je helpen in te zien dat mensen informatie op hun eigen manier waarnemen. Je hebt andere mensen niet nodig om op een bepaalde manier gelukkig te zijn. Je hoeft je onschuld niet te bewijzen - onthoud dat deze mensen niet je ouders zijn en dat ze niet dezelfde macht over je hebben als je ouders ooit hadden. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto door Andrei Ianovskii<\/a> op Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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