{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"VitalMeaning","provider_url":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv","title":"Is it reasonable to try and control this? - VitalMeaning","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"jexpBqDkLH\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/is-it-reasonable-to-try-and-control-this\/\">\u00c4r det rimligt att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka kontrollera detta?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/is-it-reasonable-to-try-and-control-this\/embed\/#?secret=jexpBqDkLH\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&quot;\u00c4r det rimligt att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka kontrollera detta?&quot; - VitalBetydelse\" data-secret=\"jexpBqDkLH\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>","description":"I am currently working on the &#8220;Perfectionism&#8221; course by Thais Gibson. She recommends to inquire, whether the particular thing we are trying to control is actually within our reasonable control. And if not, to stop trying to control it &#8211; and surrender to the outcome. As driven, perfectionistic people, we might feel that &#8220;nothing is [&hellip;]"}