I g\u00e5r hade jag en arbetss\u00f6kande som \u00f6ppet \u00e4r mycket entusiastisk \u00f6ver att b\u00f6rja jobba och som verkligen vill g\u00f6ra ett gott intryck. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Han har erbjudit sig att g\u00f6ra extra tj\u00e4nster och hj\u00e4lpa till med andra saker vid sidan av f\u00f6retaget ocks\u00e5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jag finner mig sj\u00e4lv i att motarbeta hans ans\u00f6kan och intresse f\u00f6r tj\u00e4nsten. Jag letar faktiskt efter problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jag s\u00e4ger till mig sj\u00e4lv att han inte \u00e4r tillr\u00e4ckligt kvalificerad. Och det kanske han faktiskt \u00e4r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Men vad jag vill s\u00e4ga h\u00e4r \u00e4r att hans \u00f6verdrivna \u00f6nskan\/intresse f\u00f6r tj\u00e4nsten faktiskt \u00e4r en avst\u00e4ngning. En slags r\u00f6d flagga, om du vill ... <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Han har fel n\u00e4r han s\u00e4ger att \"jag beh\u00f6ver bara kommunicera min \u00f6nskan tillr\u00e4ckligt mycket, s\u00e5 kommer jag att f\u00e5 tj\u00e4nsten\". Nej, det \u00e4r faktiskt jag som m\u00e5ste f\u00e5 lust att anst\u00e4lla honom.<\/strong>. Jag m\u00e5ste se f\u00f6rdelarna med att g\u00f6ra det f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lv<\/strong>. Jag m\u00e5ste \u00f6vertyga mig sj\u00e4lv om att han \u00e4r en \"f\u00f6r bra f\u00e5ngst f\u00f6r att f\u00f6rlora\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n Jag m\u00e5ste f\u00f6rst\u00e5 vad som ligger i det f\u00f6r mig. Jag f\u00f6rst\u00e5r att han vill ha tj\u00e4nsten, att det \u00e4r vettigt f\u00f6r honom och att han verkligen vill arbeta h\u00e4r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Jag tror att det finns en f\u00f6rdel med att en kandidat \u00e4r intresserad och vill ha tj\u00e4nsten. Men f\u00f6rdelen uppv\u00e4ger inte hans (av mig uppfattade) kapacitet<\/strong>, och min bed\u00f6mning av om han kommer att klara av den typ av arbete som jag vill ge honom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Att uppvakta en kvinna genom att s\u00e4ga \"jag \u00e4lskar dig\" och uttrycka hur mycket hon betyder f\u00f6r dig \u00e4r bara halvv\u00e4gs. Det \u00e4r inte en strategi som, \"upp till 11\", kommer att \"ge\" dig kvinnan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nej, kvinnan vill uppfylla vissa behov - och n\u00e4r hon inser att dessa behov kan uppfyllas av dig och att du \u00e4r den b\u00e4sta mannen f\u00f6r jobbet, kommer hon att \"anst\u00e4lla\" dig som pojkv\u00e4n. Hon kommer att bli f\u00f6r\u00e4lskad i dig.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Yesterday I had a job applicant in, who is openly very enthusiastic about joining, and really wants to make a good impression. He’s offered to do extra services and help with other things beside the company as well. 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