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F\u00f6r programmerare finns det ett paradigm som s\u00e4ger att \"om den kacklar som en anka och g\u00e5r som en anka, s\u00e5 behandla den som en anka\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e5 samma s\u00e4tt m\u00e5ste en \u00e4lskare behandla dig p\u00e5 ett visst s\u00e4tt f\u00f6r att kunna k\u00e4nnas igen som en \u00e4lskare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Detta omfattar f\u00f6ljande vill tillbringa tid med dig<\/strong>, och att samarbeta med dig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Om de inte beter sig som en \u00e4lskare \u00e4r de inte en \u00e4lskare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c4ven om det beror p\u00e5 deras f\u00f6rflutna och r\u00e4dsla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hitta en riktig anka.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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