{"id":192,"date":"2022-01-05T08:05:22","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T08:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=192"},"modified":"2022-01-05T08:06:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T08:06:44","slug":"om-du-inte-kan-fa-vad-du-vill-ta-ett-steg-tillbaka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/if-you-cant-get-what-you-want-take-a-step-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Om du inte kan f\u00e5 det du vill ha, ta ett steg tillbaka."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00e5t oss s\u00e4ga att du har f\u00f6r\u00e4lskat dig i en viss person (eller kund, eller id\u00e9, eller hem, ...). Och de \u00e4r inte tillg\u00e4ngliga, av n\u00e5gon anledning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Du kanske blir f\u00f6rtvivlad, du kanske b\u00f6rjar k\u00e4nna dig olycklig och frustrerad. Fokusera och f\u00f6rdubbla dina anstr\u00e4ngningar f\u00f6r att uppn\u00e5 \"ditt m\u00e5l\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det finns ett alternativ till allt detta (uppriktigt sagt on\u00f6diga) lidande: att ta ett steg tillbaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja, ta ett steg tillbaka och fr\u00e5ga dig sj\u00e4lv: Varf\u00f6r vill du ha just den personen, kunden, id\u00e9n, hemmet? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vad \u00e4r det med dem som har f\u00e5ngat din fantasi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Med andra ord, vilket slags behov hos dig tror du att de skulle tillgodose?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I mitt fall, med den DA-kvinna jag \u00e4r intresserad av, \u00e4r det k\u00e4nslom\u00e4ssig trygghet, frihet och \u00e4ventyr. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det r\u00e5der ingen tvekan om att dessa saker \u00e4r v\u00e4rdefulla f\u00f6r mig. Men jag skulle vara allvarligt vilseledd om jag antog att endast hon kan ge mig dessa saker. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(I sj\u00e4lva verket kanske hon inte kan fylla dessa behov - i sj\u00e4lva verket fyller hon dem inte eftersom hon drar sig undan fr\u00e5n mig ... )<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Genom att ge upp jakten p\u00e5 en viss person ger du INTE upp det m\u00e5let. 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