{"id":197,"date":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=197"},"modified":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-07T06:55:20","slug":"for-att-uppna-mitt-mal-behover-jag-att-den-andra-personen-forandras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/for-att-uppna-mitt-mal-behover-jag-att-den-andra-personen-forandras\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00f6r att n\u00e5 mitt m\u00e5l beh\u00f6ver jag att den andra personen f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Om jag bara kunde f\u00e5 dem att \u00f6ppna upp lite mer\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"De \u00e4r alltid s\u00e5 distanserade\" eller \"De \u00e4r alltid p\u00e5 mig, kan de inte l\u00e4mna mig ifred?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det verkar som att om bara den andra personen skulle f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras skulle v\u00e4rlden bli till regnb\u00e5gar och solsken f\u00f6r dig. Du skulle p\u00e5 ett magiskt s\u00e4tt uppn\u00e5 alla dina m\u00e5l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uppvaknande<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Kom ih\u00e5g: dessa \u00e4r din <\/strong>m\u00e5l, inte den andra personens m\u00e5l. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r kommer de att endast \u00e4ndra <\/strong>f\u00f6r att uppn\u00e5 sina egna m\u00e5l<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Om dina m\u00e5l r\u00e5kar sammanfalla med deras m\u00e5l - d\u00e5 kommer magin att ske. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Om du p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt lyckas tvinga, \u00f6vertala eller \u00f6vertyga dem om att \u00e4ndra sig kommer det annars att leda till bitterhet. Och brist p\u00e5 uppf\u00f6ljning. Uppr\u00f6rda p\u00e5 b\u00e5da sidor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00f6r\u00e4ndringen sker inom <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

F\u00f6r\u00e4ndringen m\u00e5ste ske inom dig. I st\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att vilja f\u00f6r\u00e4ndra den andra personen (\"min DA m\u00e5ste l\u00e4ra sig att komma n\u00e4rmare varandra\"), fr\u00e5ga dig sj\u00e4lv: vilket m\u00e5l f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker du uppn\u00e5? Vilka verktyg anv\u00e4nder du i detta syfte? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka f\u00f6r\u00e4ndra andra m\u00e4nniskor \u00e4r ett mycket ineffektivt verktyg. Det \u00e4r inte ditt ansvar, och i de flesta fall \u00e4r det om\u00f6jligt att f\u00f6r\u00e4ndra andra m\u00e4nniskor p\u00e5 ett effektivt s\u00e4tt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kom ih\u00e5g: de har g\u00e5tt igenom sin egen livserfarenhet och de val de g\u00f6r, och sk\u00e4len bakom dem, bygger p\u00e5 logiken i deras erfarenhet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det \u00e4r inte m\u00f6jligt att direkt \u00f6verf\u00f6ra din erfarenhet och g\u00f6ra den verklig f\u00f6r dem. De kan bara k\u00e4nna resonans med dig i den m\u00e5n de ocks\u00e5 har g\u00e5tt igenom liknande erfarenheter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00f6r mina v\u00e4nner med kontrollproblem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Lugnar du genom att ta kontroll \u00f6ver situationen? Eller k\u00e4nner du att du kan hantera en situation genom att ut\u00f6va maximal kontroll \u00f6ver den och skydda dig sj\u00e4lv? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det \u00e4r dags att sl\u00e4ppa taget. Detta \u00e4r en ineffektiv \"hammare\" som kan krossa k\u00e4nsliga relationer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ingen tycker om att bli kontrollerad (utom BDSM-folket, antar jag). Ja, m\u00e4nniskor vill bli ledda, men de vill inte bli begr\u00e4nsade bortom en viss punkt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Om du \u00f6verdriver kontrollen kommer du att f\u00f6rlora kontrollen. S\u00e5 \u00e4r det i spelet, gott folk!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto av Piotr Wilk<\/a> p\u00e5 Unsplash<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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