{"id":336,"date":"2023-03-05T06:21:56","date_gmt":"2023-03-05T06:21:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=336"},"modified":"2023-03-05T06:21:57","modified_gmt":"2023-03-05T06:21:57","slug":"inte-betala-priser-som-andra-borde-betala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/inte-betala-priser-som-andra-borde-betala\/","title":{"rendered":"Betala inte priser som andra borde betala."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e4r du g\u00e5r och handlar med dina v\u00e4nner, betalar du d\u00e5 f\u00f6r deras matvaror? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanske d\u00e5 och d\u00e5, men inte hela tiden, eller hur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ibland slutar det med att vi \"betalar f\u00f6r matvarorna\" f\u00f6r viktiga personer i v\u00e5ra liv. En person som inte sj\u00e4lv betalar f\u00f6r matvarorna kommer inte att se deras v\u00e4rde lika direkt och omedelbart som om han eller hon betalade f\u00f6r dem - det \u00e4r bara m\u00e4nniskans natur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I den h\u00e4r artikeln h\u00e4nvisar jag till den <a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/en-viktig-video-om-sjalvforgorande-beteenden\/\">sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rst\u00f6rande beteende<\/a> (SDB), <a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/en-viktig-video-om-sjalvforgorande-beteenden\/\">En bra video om detta hittar du h\u00e4r.<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kortfattat kan man s\u00e4ga att sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rst\u00f6rande beteende drivs av att man g\u00f6r fel val (\"sv\u00e4nger v\u00e4nster ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r h\u00f6ger\"), vilket i sin tur drivs av <strong>mytiska r\u00e4dslor<\/strong> att g\u00f6ra de r\u00e4tta valen (\"sv\u00e4nga h\u00f6ger\"). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Om du till exempel \u00e4r r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r att vara s\u00e5rbar och ta upp problem med din partner - och ist\u00e4llet sopar dem under mattan - kommer problem och f\u00f6rbittring att byggas upp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eller, som ett annat exempel, om du i st\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att diskutera dessa problem eller kanske tr\u00e4ffa en terapeut om dem, sj\u00e4lvmedicinerar med alkohol, kommer leverskador att uppst\u00e5 - och kanske ocks\u00e5 sociala problem, problem p\u00e5 jobbet osv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Priser<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>SDB-ramverket f\u00f6rklarar att negativa saker h\u00e4nder n\u00e4r vi konsekvent g\u00f6r fel val. Kom ih\u00e5g att vi g\u00f6r de felaktiga valen f\u00f6r att skydda oss sj\u00e4lva - f\u00f6r att vi har irrationella, mytiska r\u00e4dslor (baserade p\u00e5 verkliga erfarenheter!) som hindrar oss fr\u00e5n att g\u00f6ra r\u00e4tt val. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ett r\u00e4tt val skulle till exempel vara att sluta dricka f\u00f6r att m\u00e5 b\u00e4ttre och ist\u00e4llet prata om dina problem med en terapeut eller din partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eftersom det r\u00e4tta valet blockeras av den mytiska r\u00e4dslan (t.ex. \"partnern kommer att avvisa mig\/skratta \u00e5t mig\/inte lyssna p\u00e5 mig och det kommer att g\u00f6ra \u00e4nnu mer ont\") kommer vi att g\u00f6ra fel val. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dessa val kommer att f\u00e5 negativa konsekvenser - som kallas \"priser\" inom ramen f\u00f6r SDB.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag har skrivit ett inl\u00e4gg om <a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/sjalvforgorande-beteende-illustrerat\/\">hur det h\u00e4r fungerar i en dejtingsituation h\u00e4r<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Som en person som anv\u00e4nder sig av SDB - till exempel dricker - kommer du att betala en hel del priser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Partners som betalar priset<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Men det \u00e4r inte bara du som kommer att betala priset. Din n\u00e4rmaste sociala krets och dina romantiska partners kommer ocks\u00e5 att betala priset om de v\u00e4ljer att stanna hos dig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00e4r det g\u00e4ller alkohol m\u00e5ste din partner till exempel hantera dina baksm\u00e4llor och ditt eventuellt irriterade hum\u00f6r. Naturligtvis kommer det att finnas mindre pengar tillg\u00e4ngliga f\u00f6r att sk\u00f6ta hush\u00e5llet, eftersom alkohol inte precis \u00e4r en billig dryck. Dessutom kommer du i vissa situationer inte att vara p\u00e5litlig, du kan uts\u00e4tta familjen f\u00f6r risker (rattfylleri ...), eller du kan g\u00f6ra din partner generad i en social grupp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u00e5t oss l\u00e4mna alkoholexemplet f\u00f6r en stund. L\u00e5t oss diskutera r\u00e4dda och undvikande anknytningsstilar som inte vill engagera sig fullt ut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Om du \u00e4r k\u00e4r i en person som har en r\u00e4ddh\u00e5gsen undvikande anknytningsstil, men som forts\u00e4tter att st\u00f6ta bort dig n\u00e4r du kommer n\u00e4rmare, <strong>du, som partner<\/strong>, har ocks\u00e5 ett problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Du betalar din r\u00e4ddh\u00e5gade undvikande partners pris. S\u00e5 de m\u00e4rker \u00e4nnu mindre att deras beteende \u00e4r skadligt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Du betalar deras matr\u00e4kning medan de sl\u00f6sar bort sina dyrbara matvaror. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Om du inte har fasta gr\u00e4nser f\u00f6r andras priser (t.ex. \u00e4ven missbruk - som \u00e5terigen beror p\u00e5 mytiska r\u00e4dslor f\u00f6r att vara s\u00e5rbar - men p\u00e5 viljan att vara mobbaren, alltid \"den starkare\" parten) leder det till att du sitter fast i situationen med dem och att ingenting f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras. Eftersom de \u00e4r \"rigid\" fast i det beteendet, det vill s\u00e4ga tills n\u00e5got h\u00e4nder - tills de k\u00e4nner sm\u00e4rtan tillr\u00e4ckligt starkt, s\u00e5 att SDB till slut kn\u00e4pper ihop och de inser vad de har gjort. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kostbara levnads\u00e5r sl\u00f6sas bort<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag betalade sj\u00e4lv priset f\u00f6r en kvinna, N., som hela tiden sk\u00f6t bort mig och tog avst\u00e5nd fr\u00e5n mig. P\u00e5 s\u00e4tt och vis var det ett sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rst\u00f6rande beteende \u00e4ven fr\u00e5n min egen sida - att jaga en k\u00e4nslom\u00e4ssigt otillg\u00e4nglig kvinna. Fem \"bortkastade\" \u00e5r (jag fick mycket personlig utveckling av det). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mitt fall hittade jag urs\u00e4kter f\u00f6r henne och fortsatte att prata med henne ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att g\u00e5 ifr\u00e5n henne f\u00f6r gott. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hennes beteende kr\u00e4ver att man betalar ett pris - att man inte l\u00e4ngre vill ha kontakt med potentiella romantiska partners. Beteendet \u00e4r f\u00f6rmodligen utformat f\u00f6r att g\u00f6ra detta. Om du forts\u00e4tter att framh\u00e4rda och betala hennes pris - det vill s\u00e4ga att vara k\u00e4nslom\u00e4ssigt uppr\u00f6rd och stressad, samtidigt som du h\u00e5ller din oro borta fr\u00e5n henne, kommer hon att \u00d6KA beteendena tills de n\u00e5r sitt m\u00e5l, att driva bort dig f\u00f6r gott. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00e4nniskor \u00e4r v\u00e4ldigt smarta n\u00e4r det g\u00e4ller att genomf\u00f6ra sin undermedvetna programmering. Det \u00e4r som en m\u00e5ls\u00f6kande missil, den forts\u00e4tter att fungera tills den har n\u00e5tt sitt m\u00e5l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Och i samtliga fall \u00e4r dessa SDB i grunden oskyldiga - de f\u00f6ds ur ett behov av sj\u00e4lvskydd. De \u00e4r resultatet av giftiga situationer i det f\u00f6rflutna som personen har befunnit sig i. D\u00e4r deras SDB (sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rst\u00f6rande beteende) har gett dem lindring. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00f6rest\u00e4ll dig till exempel att N. kan ha haft en giftig relation med sin far, som kan ha varit \u00f6verkritisk, kall och eventuellt narcissistisk. Skulle det inte vara en normal reaktion f\u00f6r henne att dra sig undan fr\u00e5n honom s\u00e5 mycket som m\u00f6jligt? Att inte dela med sig av personliga detaljer, s\u00e5 att angreppsytan minskar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Det som brukade fungera straffar nu henne och hennes omgivning. Det \u00e4r hennes problem att l\u00f6sa - kanske med hj\u00e4lp av en terapeut. Jag hoppas verkligen att hon lyckas l\u00f6sa det, f\u00f6r jag tycker verkligen om henne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men jag har slutat betala hennes priser f\u00f6r henne. Inget kan g\u00f6ras fr\u00e5n min sida - att acceptera detta skulle bara leda till mer lidande f\u00f6r min del. Jag har frigjort mig fr\u00e5n henne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Anst\u00e4llda och kollegor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag kommer att t\u00e4nka p\u00e5 tv\u00e5 andra exempel, f\u00f6re detta anst\u00e4llda som jag hade anst\u00e4llt. Som chef\/\u00e4gare har jag lyxen att kunna avskeda personer som dyker upp med ett tungt \"pris\" p\u00e5 f\u00f6retaget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">F.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>F. ber\u00e4ttade f\u00f6r mig om hur hans bil hade blivit repad av kollegor som h\u00e4mnd. Han var den enda person som jag har avskedat efter bara tre dagars arbete hos oss. Jag ins\u00e5g att han drevs av en \u00f6nskan att ha s\u00e5 mycket makt som m\u00f6jligt, makt \u00f6ver andra m\u00e4nniskor. Om han var tvungen att s\u00e4tta ner andra m\u00e4nniskor, vara osamarbetsvillig och visa att han p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt var \u00f6verl\u00e4gsen andra m\u00e4nniskor, f\u00f6r att uppn\u00e5 denna k\u00e4nsla av makt, skulle han g\u00f6ra det. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Han hade h\u00e5llit p\u00e5 i tio \u00e5r p\u00e5 den tidigare arbetsplatsen, om jag minns r\u00e4tt, tills en ny kille d\u00f6k upp som inte stod ut med hans s\u00e4tt att kontrollera m\u00e4nniskor. Som hotade honom - s\u00e5 F. slutade p\u00e5 egen hand. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Insikten om att det skulle finnas <strong>konstant friktion <\/strong>med F - t.ex. att han inte l\u00e4t min kollega S. visa honom hur det g\u00e5r till, att han inte f\u00f6ljde hennes instruktioner (f\u00f6r att visa sin \"\u00f6verl\u00e4gsenhet\"), gjorde jag som chef r\u00e4tt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag slutade betala F:s priser - och l\u00e4t honom betala sina priser sj\u00e4lv. Jag l\u00e4t honom g\u00e5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanske kommer F. att inse att han utest\u00e4nger sig sj\u00e4lv. Kanske inte. Troligtvis kommer det att kr\u00e4vas fler iterationer, eller s\u00e5 kommer han faktiskt att hamna p\u00e5 ett f\u00f6retag d\u00e4r chefen har sv\u00e5rare att avskeda F. - inte f\u00f6r att det inte skulle vara r\u00e4tt val, utan f\u00f6r att han \u00e4r r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r och oerfaren med att avskeda m\u00e4nniskor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>K\u00e4nner du igen den h\u00e4r ber\u00e4ttelsen? Kanske om du befinner dig i ett giftigt f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande d\u00e4r din partner trycker ner dig? Forts\u00e4tter du att betala priset f\u00f6r din partner? D\u00e4r deras beteende faktiskt borde st\u00e4nga av andra m\u00e4nniskor och de borde utest\u00e4ngas i geng\u00e4ld?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">G.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Det h\u00e4r \u00e4r en annan anst\u00e4lld som hade varit hos oss i fyra m\u00e5nader. Hon har varit sjuk ca 50 % av denna tid. Corona i b\u00f6rjan - men en vanlig f\u00f6rkylning senare. Och hennes prestationer p\u00e5 andra omr\u00e5den motsvarade inte v\u00e5ra krav. Medan hon var sjukskriven, och med tanke p\u00e5 att f\u00f6retaget hade stor personalbrist och min kollega A. fick b\u00e4ra den st\u00f6rsta delen av arbetet, bad G. i f\u00f6rv\u00e4g om tv\u00e5 extra lediga dagar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00e5 ett visst s\u00e4tt tog G. inte ansvar f\u00f6r att vara en del av f\u00f6retaget och bidra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Det handlar inte om makt f\u00f6r henne. Kanske handlar det om r\u00e4dslan f\u00f6r att g\u00f6ra misstag, kanske r\u00e4dslan f\u00f6r att st\u00e4lla fr\u00e5gor\/kommunicera\/reflektera \u00f6ver andra m\u00e4nniskors behov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I vilket fall som helst inser jag att jag har en anst\u00e4lld i mina h\u00e4nder som presterar s\u00e4mre \u00e4n f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntat - n\u00e4r hon \u00e4r n\u00e4rvarande. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vi \u00e4r underbemannade, men \u00e4nd\u00e5 - att binda pengar till n\u00e5gon som i praktiken inte dyker upp 100 %, inte ens n\u00e4r hon \u00e4r p\u00e5 jobbet - <strong>skulle betala hennes priser.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Som chef m\u00e5ste jag fatta r\u00e4tt beslut f\u00f6r mitt f\u00f6retag. P\u00e5 samma s\u00e4tt m\u00e5ste du, som chef f\u00f6r ditt liv, fatta de r\u00e4tta besluten f\u00f6r ditt liv. <strong>Sluta betala andras priser<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Giftig arbetsplats? Giftiga kollegor?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Om du sj\u00e4lv \u00e4r anst\u00e4lld och har giftiga kollegor rekommenderar jag att du slutar betala deras pris - t\u00e4ck inte upp f\u00f6r mobbare till exempel - och om ledningen inte g\u00f6r n\u00e5got \u00e5t saken har du tyv\u00e4rr en giftig arbetsplatskultur. Ut med dig! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Slutsats<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sluta sl\u00f6sa bort dina levnads\u00e5r p\u00e5 att betala andras priser, min v\u00e4n.<\/strong>. S\u00e4tt fasta gr\u00e4nser - kanske f\u00f6rst\u00e5r de det, kanske inte.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dessa priser \u00e4r inte dina att betala, de \u00e4r deras. Och s\u00e5 sm\u00e5ningom kanske prisb\u00f6rdan blir s\u00e5 h\u00f6g att de inte l\u00e4ngre kan blunda och b\u00f6rjar arbeta med en terapeut eller p\u00e5 andra s\u00e4tt. De kommer att bli nyktra och sluta f\u00f6rst\u00f6ra sin lever och sina liv. D\u00e5 kommer de att vara redo att vara en m\u00f6jlig partner f\u00f6r dig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Foto av <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/ja\/@jontyson?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Jon Tyson<\/a> p\u00e5 <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/2TzSuQZOHe4?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you go shopping with your friends, do you pay for their groceries? Maybe once in a while, but not all the time, right? Sometimes we end up &#8220;paying for the groceries&#8221; for important people in our lives. 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