{"id":363,"date":"2023-03-08T10:38:40","date_gmt":"2023-03-08T10:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=363"},"modified":"2023-03-08T10:38:40","modified_gmt":"2023-03-08T10:38:40","slug":"det-svaratkomliga-felslutet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/det-svaratkomliga-felslutet\/","title":{"rendered":"Den sv\u00e5ra att f\u00e5 tag p\u00e5"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Vi v\u00e4rdes\u00e4tter det som \u00e4r sv\u00e5rt att f\u00e5 tag p\u00e5<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Vi m\u00e4ter \"v\u00e4rdet\" av n\u00e5got i f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande till hur sv\u00e5rt det \u00e4r att f\u00e5 det. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c4r du t.ex. besatt av att kunna ta del av aktuella nyheter eller fakta? Tycker du att det \u00e4r mycket v\u00e4rdefullt att kunna g\u00f6ra detta - verkligen djupt och k\u00e4nslom\u00e4ssigt? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00e4nk p\u00e5 Wikipedia, Google, Reddit och de m\u00e5nga fria nyhetsmedierna. V\u00e4rderar du <strong>Tilltr\u00e4de. <\/strong>till denna information? Troligen skulle du k\u00e4nna det f\u00f6rst n\u00e4r tillg\u00e5ngen till Google etc. upph\u00f6rde. Naturligtvis finns det Bing ... <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sj\u00e4lva verket \u00e4r det inte hur sv\u00e5rt det \u00e4r att f\u00e5 tillg\u00e5ng till informationen som du v\u00e4rderar den, utan informationen i sig sj\u00e4lv - t.ex. f\u00f6r underh\u00e5llningsv\u00e4rdet, f\u00f6r dess nyhet osv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Varf\u00f6r \u00e4r guld mycket dyrare \u00e4n cornflakes? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00f6r att guld \u00e4r mer s\u00e4llsynt \u00e4n cornflakes. Eftersom det \u00e4r sv\u00e5rare att tillverka. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r stiger priset. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">F\u00f6rs\u00f6ker \u00e4ta guld<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Men \u00e4r en guldtacka anv\u00e4ndbar i sig sj\u00e4lv, l\u00e5t oss s\u00e4ga f\u00f6r konsumtion? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nej, du kan inte \u00e4ta guld. Generellt sett \u00e4r guld ocks\u00e5 till\u00e5tet som en livsmedelstillsats, <strong>men det har inget n\u00e4ringsv\u00e4rde<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Detta enkla exempel visar att n\u00e5got som \u00e4r sv\u00e5rt att f\u00e5 tag p\u00e5 inte n\u00f6dv\u00e4ndigtvis uppfyller dina behov. \u00c5tminstone inte direkt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja, jag vet att du kan s\u00e4lja guldtackan och k\u00f6pa cornflakes f\u00f6r den summan. Men du beh\u00f6ver ju inte k\u00f6pa guldtackan fr\u00e5n b\u00f6rjan - varf\u00f6r skapa denna extra omv\u00e4g? K\u00f6p bara cornflakesen direkt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kvinnor som \u00e4r sv\u00e5ra att f\u00e5<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag l\u00e4ser just nu en bra bok med dejtingr\u00e5d f\u00f6r m\u00e4n som heter \"Hack your mating\". F\u00f6rfattaren menar att vi f\u00f6rr i tiden levde i sm\u00e5 sociala grupper, d\u00e4r vi hade ett begr\u00e4nsat urval av kvinnliga partner (men naturligtvis ocks\u00e5 manliga partner). En strategi som gick ut p\u00e5 att forts\u00e4tta att uppvakta en viss kvinna som du gillade var f\u00f6rmodligen en b\u00e4ttre strategi p\u00e5 den tiden - vilket marginellt skulle \u00f6ka dina chanser att f\u00e5 en partner som du verkligen gillade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I dag har situationen f\u00f6r\u00e4ndrats. Det finns miljontals kvinnor som du kan tr\u00e4ffa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Att jaga en otillg\u00e4nglig kvinna eller en kvinna som \u00e4r sv\u00e5r att f\u00e5 har en mycket h\u00f6g faktisk kostnad: du sl\u00f6sar bort din tid. (och kanske ocks\u00e5 hennes)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Om kvinnan f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker anv\u00e4nda sig av en strategi d\u00e4r hon \u00e4r sv\u00e5r att f\u00e5, f\u00f6r att \u00f6ka det v\u00e4rde hon anses ha, <a href=\"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/inte-betala-priser-som-andra-borde-betala\/\">L\u00e5t henne betala priset f\u00f6r sitt eget beteende.<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kom ih\u00e5g att \"sv\u00e5rt att f\u00e5\" ocks\u00e5 kan betyda m\u00e5nga andra saker:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>kvinnan \u00e4r verkligen inte intresserad. Jag \u00e4r till exempel inte intresserad av vissa typer av kvinnor (jag f\u00f6redrar till exempel brunetter framf\u00f6r blondiner) - det kan vara samma sak f\u00f6r henne.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>kvinnan har n\u00e5gon man i sin krets som hon resonerar mer med \u00e4n du<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>kvinnan har problem med att knyta an till sig sj\u00e4lv och kan inte skapa ett romantiskt band<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Det \u00e4r troligen inte n\u00e5got som har med dig att g\u00f6ra. \u00c4ven om det \u00e4r det, \u00e4r det kanske inte n\u00e5got som du skulle \u00e4ndra eller vara intresserad av att \u00e4ndra. En kvinna som jag pratade med fick till exempel veta att jag inte arbetar som l\u00e4kare, trots att jag har studerat medicin. Min f\u00f6rklaring om att det skulle inskr\u00e4nka min frihet gick utan respons fr\u00e5n henne. M\u00f6jligen skulle jag ha en b\u00e4ttre chans hos henne om jag skulle avbryta min karri\u00e4r som entrepren\u00f6r och ge upp f\u00f6r att arbeta p\u00e5 ett sjukhus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men skulle jag verkligen vilja g\u00f6ra det? Det finns risk f\u00f6r att andra fr\u00e5gor dyker upp - d\u00e4rf\u00f6r \u00e4r det b\u00e4ttre att h\u00e5lla kursen. Forts\u00e4tt att f\u00f6rb\u00e4ttra de saker du ser och h\u00e5ller med om att de b\u00f6r f\u00f6rb\u00e4ttras. Men f\u00f6rvr\u00e4ng inte dig sj\u00e4lv f\u00f6r andra m\u00e4nniskors skull. <strong>Sluta jaga kvinnor som \u00e4r sv\u00e5ra att f\u00e5.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Att g\u00e5 iv\u00e4g<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Efter att ha \u00e5terv\u00e4nt fr\u00e5n Australien deltog jag i en konversation p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet med en kvinna som hette Annie. Hon var inte s\u00e4rskilt engagerad, till exempel ignorerades mitt f\u00f6rslag om att ha en videodate p\u00e5 Alla hj\u00e4rtans dag. Jag b\u00f6rjade d\u00e5 dra mig tillbaka, och d\u00e5 b\u00f6rjade hon engagera sig lite igen och str\u00e4cka ut handen. Jag upprepade mitt f\u00f6rslag om en videodate och vi diskuterade sedan helgen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hon f\u00f6reslog sj\u00e4lv att vi skulle prova fredagen innan. Jag meddelade n\u00e4r jag skulle vara tillg\u00e4nglig och skrev till henne n\u00e5gra minuter innan att jag var redo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag har h\u00e4mtat en bra id\u00e9 fr\u00e5n Dale Carnegies bok \"How to stop worrying and start living\" (Hur man slutar oroa sig och b\u00f6rjar leva). N\u00e4r n\u00e5gon inte dyker upp st\u00e4ller jag in en timer p\u00e5 15 minuter och t\u00e4nker d\u00e5 att m\u00f6tet inte kommer att \u00e4ga rum. Annie d\u00f6k inte upp. Hon skrev sedan senare till mig \"Jag gl\u00f6mde vilken dag det var, haha\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag skrev att det \u00e4r okej, och om hon vill kan vi prata p\u00e5 helgen, d\u00e5 - hon ska bara meddela mig vilken tid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hon svarade inte p\u00e5 det. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I m\u00e5ndags, efter helgen, skickade jag henne mitt farv\u00e4l och f\u00f6rklarade att bitter erfarenhet har l\u00e4rt mig att inte forts\u00e4tta om kvinnan inte investerar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u00e5ter den h\u00e4r historien bekant? Att bli lurad, av en man eller en kvinna? N\u00e5gon som inte \u00e4r s\u00e4ker, men som forts\u00e4tter att dyka upp n\u00e4r du drar dig tillbaka och ger upp hoppet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Det \u00e4r en f\u00e4lla, min v\u00e4n<\/strong>. Guld kan inte \u00e4tas. Leta i st\u00e4llet efter cornflakes - de m\u00e4nniskor som villigt engagerar sig i dig. 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