{"id":383,"date":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=383"},"modified":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","modified_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:10:31","slug":"uthallig-trots-avslag-en-supermakt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/uthallig-trots-avslag-en-supermakt\/","title":{"rendered":"Att vara ih\u00e4rdig trots avslag: en superkraft"},"content":{"rendered":"

En kniv kan anv\u00e4ndas f\u00f6r att sk\u00e4ra br\u00f6d. En kniv kan anv\u00e4ndas f\u00f6r att skada andra m\u00e4nniskor och f\u00f6r att skada dig sj\u00e4lv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Forts\u00e4tta trots avslag<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Detta \u00e4r en vana, n\u00e5got som jag l\u00e4rde mig i barndomen. Min far kunde vara of\u00f6ruts\u00e4gbar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag minns v\u00e4l k\u00e4nslan av att f\u00f6rtroendet f\u00f6r honom sakta byggdes upp med tiden, f\u00f6r att sedan krossas av en ny of\u00f6ruts\u00e4gbar episod med h\u00e5rda ord eller till och med v\u00e5ld (mot saker, men i vissa fall tyv\u00e4rr ocks\u00e5 mot mig eller min bror). Jag minns att jag gick p\u00e5 \u00e4ggskal, k\u00e4nde mig os\u00e4ker och ifr\u00e5gasatte mig sj\u00e4lv mycket. F\u00f6rs\u00f6kte lista ut vad jag kunde g\u00f6ra r\u00e4tt f\u00f6r att h\u00e5lla mig s\u00e4ker. Att h\u00e5lla mig s\u00e4ker genom att kontrollera honom genom mina handlingar. Genom att anstr\u00e4nga sig mer<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00f6rbannelse och medberoende<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Exakt, detta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag anv\u00e4nde kniven f\u00f6r att h\u00e5lla fast trots avslag f\u00f6r att h\u00e5lla mig s\u00e4ker. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"N\u00e4r du blir avvisad, f\u00f6rs\u00f6k h\u00e5rdare\" viskar kniven till mig. Kan du relatera till det? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Att dejta som vuxen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Denna vana ledde till att jag fastnade f\u00f6r flickor som avvisade mig. \"N\u00e4r du blir avvisad, f\u00f6rs\u00f6k h\u00e5rdare.\"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag anv\u00e4nde kniven mot mig sj\u00e4lv, och p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt anv\u00e4nde jag den ocks\u00e5 mot dessa kvinnor (jag irriterade dem). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det var inte f\u00f6rr\u00e4n i N som jag verkligen arbetade med det h\u00e4r m\u00f6nstret och r\u00e4ttade till det. Jag slutade jaga kvinnor som var otillg\u00e4ngliga eller hade sagt nej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c4ven om jag t\u00e4nker p\u00e5 n\u00e5gra av dessa kvinnor d\u00e5 och d\u00e5 (t.ex. en nyligen genomf\u00f6rd dejtingupplevelse med en kvinna som bor i M\u00fcnchen), \u00e4r det en \u00e5terv\u00e4ndsgr\u00e4nd att jaga dem. Jag inser att det inte fungerade av n\u00e5gon anledning, och sk\u00e4len kommer sannolikt att best\u00e5.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Supermakten<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

En kniv \u00e4r ett verktyg - och ett mycket anv\u00e4ndbart s\u00e5dant. T\u00e4nk dig att beh\u00f6va laga mat utan kniv!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi beh\u00f6ver knivar i v\u00e5ra liv, och vi \u00e4ven <\/strong>m\u00e5ste anv\u00e4nda dem p\u00e5 r\u00e4tt s\u00e4tt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e5 samma s\u00e4tt \u00e4r denna \"uth\u00e5llighet trots avslag\" en superkraft n\u00e4r den till\u00e4mpas p\u00e5 r\u00e4tt s\u00e4tt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tricket \u00e4r - att g\u00f6ra det sekventiellt<\/strong>att forts\u00e4tta att s\u00f6ka efter romantiska partners (trots avslag), utan att s\u00f6ka efter \u00d6VRIGT <\/strong>romantiska partners. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Att framh\u00e4rda trots avvisande. Men att f\u00f6r\u00e4ndra den person du f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker dejta. Att f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras tills du matchar en person som inte kommer att avvisa dig. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Detta. I st\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att ge upp, i st\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att beklaga min barndom och att den kostade mig \u00e5r (faktiskt n\u00e5got som tv\u00e5 decennier!) v\u00e4rt dejting tid, Jag kan acceptera att jag fick den unika g\u00e5va att ha detta verktyg till mitt f\u00f6rfogande. Jag vet hur man framh\u00e4rdar trots avslag. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Den har varit till nytta i aff\u00e4rsverksamheten. Om den anv\u00e4nds p\u00e5 r\u00e4tt s\u00e4tt kommer den nu att vara anv\u00e4ndbar n\u00e4r du dejtar. Jag kommer att forts\u00e4tta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto av Daniil Onischenko<\/a> p\u00e5 Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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