{"id":409,"date":"2023-07-17T05:56:41","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:56:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/?p=409"},"modified":"2023-07-17T05:56:42","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:56:42","slug":"varfor-det-ar-sakert-att-gora-val","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vitalmeaning.com\/sv\/why-its-safe-to-make-choices\/","title":{"rendered":"Varf\u00f6r det \u00e4r s\u00e4kert att g\u00f6ra val"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I l\u00f6rdags var jag p\u00e5 min 20-\u00e5riga klass\u00e5tertr\u00e4ff (examensm\u00f6tet, Abiturtreffen). Jag ville tr\u00e4ffa de m\u00e4nniskor som jag gick i skolan med, se hur deras liv utvecklats (och ja, j\u00e4mf\u00f6ra hur mitt liv har utvecklats). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det fanns bara ett problem: en \"Munich Singles Club Meetup\" \u00e4gde rum samma kv\u00e4ll. Det var p\u00e5 detta event som jag tr\u00e4ffade min enda flickv\u00e4n hittills. Denna Meetup har \u00f6ver 6000 medlemmar, och jag ville verkligen ge det ett nytt f\u00f6rs\u00f6k. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag diskuterade detta med min v\u00e4n T., och han var \u00f6ppen f\u00f6r att f\u00f6lja med. Vi kom \u00f6verens om att jag skulle f\u00e5 en k\u00e4nsla f\u00f6r klass\u00e5tertr\u00e4ffen f\u00f6rst och sedan best\u00e4mma om jag ville stanna d\u00e4r eller g\u00e5 till singeltr\u00e4ffen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Till en b\u00f6rjan hade jag inga intressanta samtal p\u00e5 klass\u00e5tertr\u00e4ffen, s\u00e5 det k\u00e4ndes lite tr\u00e5kigt f\u00f6r mig. Men efter ungef\u00e4r 1 1\/2 timme kom jag p\u00e5 mig sj\u00e4lv med att prata med ett par tidigare klasskamrater om intressanta \u00e4mnen (relationer och hur deras liv utvecklades). Det var verkligen fascinerande att se hur vissa m\u00e4nniskor hade f\u00e5tt b\u00e4ttre sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rtroende, och hur jag s\u00e5g att vissa m\u00e4nniskor var mer till lags \u00e4n andra, beteendem\u00e4ssigt sett. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag var frestad att stanna kvar p\u00e5 klassm\u00f6tet, \u00e5 andra sidan v\u00e4ntade T. och jag hade skjutit upp att g\u00e5 en g\u00e5ng redan, eftersom jag nj\u00f6t av samtalen. Jag ville inte l\u00e5ta honom v\u00e4nta, och jag ville inte heller missa m\u00f6jligheten att tr\u00e4ffa en trevlig singelkvinna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det trodde jag i alla fall! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Singeltr\u00e4ffen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag ringde upp T. och vi gick till singeltr\u00e4ffen. Det \u00e4gde rum p\u00e5 en karaokebar n\u00e4ra Ostbahnhof i M\u00fcnchen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Omedelbart blev flera saker uppenbara f\u00f6r mig: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Det var m\u00e5nga m\u00e4n och bara 2 kvinnor<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jag var inte intresserad av n\u00e5gon av de 2 kvinnor som var d\u00e4r<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Platsen var ett d\u00e5ligt val f\u00f6r att l\u00e4ra k\u00e4nna m\u00e4nniskor, eftersom musiken var mycket h\u00f6gljudd.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evenemanget hade gjort reklam f\u00f6r \"ta med en kvinnlig v\u00e4n gratis\". Nu f\u00f6rstod jag varf\u00f6r - det var m\u00e5nga fler m\u00e4n \u00e4n kvinnor d\u00e4r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Efter en liten stund viskade jag \"Det \u00e4r en blindg\u00e5ngare\" till min v\u00e4n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gruppen spelade ett spel d\u00e4r alla skulle skriva tv\u00e5 fr\u00e5gor p\u00e5 sm\u00e5 papperslappar, och sedan skulle andra slumpm\u00e4ssigt dra dessa fr\u00e5gor och svara p\u00e5 dem. En av mina fr\u00e5gor blev ocks\u00e5 vald: \"Vart reste du senast, som verkligen ber\u00f6rde ditt hj\u00e4rta?\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En utmaning med det h\u00e4r spelet var att gruppen var lite f\u00f6r stor f\u00f6r att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 de andra medan musiken str\u00f6mmade ut genom h\u00f6gtalarna. Jag bad till och med en av de attraktiva servitriserna att skruva ner musiken ett sn\u00e4pp, vilket hon gjorde. Men det var fortfarande f\u00f6r h\u00f6gt!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evenemanget var t\u00e4nkt att p\u00e5g\u00e5 i minst <strong>en annan <\/strong>timme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Flykt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pl\u00f6tsligt anl\u00e4nde ytterligare tv\u00e5 kvinnor - b\u00e5da var inte heller en match f\u00f6r mig. Kvinnan som organiserade evenemanget (som var den mest attraktiva av kvinnorna d\u00e4r) delade upp gruppen i tv\u00e5 delar - min v\u00e4n och jag var nu i tv\u00e5 separata grupper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag t\u00e4nkte: \"Det h\u00e4r \u00e4r chansen\/m\u00f6jligheten att \u00e5ka - jag m\u00e5ste agera\". H\u00e4r satt jag och pratade med fullst\u00e4ndiga fr\u00e4mlingar och hade sv\u00e5rt att ens f\u00f6rst\u00e5 deras svar p\u00e5 slumpm\u00e4ssiga fr\u00e5gor, samtidigt som jag missade mitt examensm\u00f6te! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Att g\u00e5 p\u00e5 Munich Singles Meetup hade helt klart varit fel val f\u00f6r mig den kv\u00e4llen. Men innan jag faktiskt gick dit hade jag inte kunnat se att det verkligen var fel val. Om jag hade stannat kvar p\u00e5 avslutningstr\u00e4ffen hade jag f\u00f6rmodligen undrat om jag hade g\u00e5tt miste om riktigt snygga och sp\u00e4nnande kvinnor, kanske till och med om jag hade g\u00e5tt miste om ett nytt f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag kom p\u00e5 en plan. Jag kollade min telefon, som om jag hade f\u00e5tt ett meddelande, urs\u00e4ktade mig fr\u00e5n min undergrupp och drog T. \u00e5t sidan. Jag f\u00f6rklarade att jag inte riktigt \"k\u00e4nde det\" och att jag mycket hellre skulle g\u00e5 tillbaka till mitt examensm\u00f6te, eller till och med titta p\u00e5 en film med T., \u00e4n att stanna kvar p\u00e5 M\u00fcnchen Singles Club-evenemanget. T. k\u00e4nde p\u00e5 samma s\u00e4tt, han hade funnit sig i sitt \u00f6de, men nj\u00f6t inte riktigt av det heller. Jag gick sedan till arrang\u00f6ren och ber\u00e4ttade f\u00f6r henne att vi pl\u00f6tsligt hade kallats iv\u00e4g p\u00e5 ett br\u00e5dskande \u00e4rende, dit vi beh\u00f6vde \u00e5ka omedelbart. Hon sa: \"Men du har ju inte ens tr\u00e4ffat din flickv\u00e4n \u00e4n!\" - Jag hade tidigare ber\u00e4ttat f\u00f6r gruppen om mina sk\u00e4l och min bakgrund f\u00f6r att delta i evenemanget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag lj\u00f6g att vi kanske skulle komma tillbaka om allt gick bra, men att vi inte var s\u00e4kra p\u00e5 det \u00e4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naturligtvis fanns det ingen chans att vi skulle komma tillbaka till evenemanget - jag hade precis sparat minst en timme som vi annars skulle ha sl\u00f6sat bort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Det lyckliga slutet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi gick tillbaka till klass\u00e5tertr\u00e4ffen, T., som k\u00e4nde flera andra personer i min skola gick ocks\u00e5 med. Han tyckte definitivt mer om klass\u00e5tertr\u00e4ffen, och det gjorde jag ocks\u00e5. Det slutade med att jag stannade kvar till ungef\u00e4r klockan 3 p\u00e5 morgonen med n\u00e5gra killar. Det var ocks\u00e5 l\u00e4tt att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 mina klasskamrater, eftersom det inte h\u00f6rdes n\u00e5gon h\u00f6g musik fr\u00e5n h\u00f6gtalarna. Det h\u00e4r var ocks\u00e5 m\u00e4nniskor som jag delade historia med. Och jag var genuint nyfiken p\u00e5 dem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Varf\u00f6r det spelar roll<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Att g\u00f6ra val \u00e4r fyllt av os\u00e4kerhet. Du st\u00e5r vid en v\u00e4gkorsning d\u00e4r du kan v\u00e4lja att g\u00e5 till v\u00e4nster eller till h\u00f6ger. <strong>Vilken v\u00e4g v\u00e4ljer du?<\/strong> \"Det beror p\u00e5 vart du vill \u00e5ka\", skulle Cheshire-katten ha sagt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Men det du verkligen \u00e4r r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r \u00e4r att g\u00f6ra fel val - s\u00e5 ibland slutar det med att du inte g\u00f6r n\u00e5got val alls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I min ber\u00e4ttelse slutade det med att jag gjorde ett felaktigt val och gick p\u00e5 Munich Club Singles Meetup - ett evenemang som jag aldrig kommer att delta i igen. Tidigare hade det varit ett bra val f\u00f6r mig, eftersom jag hade tr\u00e4ffat min enda flickv\u00e4n hittills genom det. Den d\u00e4r l\u00f6rdagen f\u00f6r en vecka sedan var det bortkastad tid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det \u00e4r dock <strong>Jag beh\u00f6vde g\u00f6ra fel val <\/strong>att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 att det var fel val. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Om jag inte hade gjort det valet,<strong> skulle jag ha \u00e5ngrat<\/strong> att jag inte \u00e5kte dit och gav mig sj\u00e4lv chansen att tr\u00e4ffa en underbar kvinna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jag gick in p\u00e5 fel v\u00e4g och tog med mig T. p\u00e5 det. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Men - n\u00e4r jag f\u00f6rstod att det inte \u00e4r bra att forts\u00e4tta p\u00e5 den v\u00e4gen, b\u00e5de <strong>T. och jag gick bokstavligen tillbaka och tog r\u00e4tt v\u00e4g<\/strong>, den b\u00e4ttre v\u00e4gen f\u00f6r den kv\u00e4llen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e5 varje v\u00e4g du g\u00e5r kommer du att hitta information som talar om f\u00f6r dig om den v\u00e4gen \u00e4r v\u00e4rd att g\u00e5 och forts\u00e4tta p\u00e5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lyssna p\u00e5 v\u00e4gen och vad den s\u00e4ger dig. Du kan alltid g\u00e5 tillbaka till det beslut du fattade - och det \u00e4r det som g\u00f6r det s\u00e4kert att fatta beslut: du kommer att f\u00e5 ytterligare information n\u00e4r du har fattat ett beslut, och nu kan du fatta ett nytt beslut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Forts\u00e4tt, ge det d\u00e4r f\u00f6rh\u00e5llandet som du \u00e4r os\u00e4ker p\u00e5 en chans - se om det fungerar f\u00f6r dig. Ge det lite tid. Om det inte g\u00f6r det, g\u00e5 tillbaka och leta efter andra m\u00f6jligheter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All lycka till p\u00e5 dina resor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Foto av <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@stachmann?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Richard Stachmann<\/a> p\u00e5 <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/a-woman-wearing-a-t-shirt-with-a-picture-of-a-womans-face-27NSIzy0Fr8?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday I was at my 20 year class reunion (the graduation meeting, Abiturtreffen). I wanted to connect with the people I went to school with, see how their lives developed (and yes compare how my life has developed). There was only one problem: a &#8220;Munich Singles Club Meetup&#8221; was happening on the same evening. 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