What do you do when you’re in love with an emotionally unavailable woman?
Realize that you might be emotionally unavailable as well.
That you’re building sandcastles in the sky.
Missing out on reality, and the beauty it has to offer.
I’ve stumbled across a great blog about horses yesterday: Pferdeflüsterei (in German). It came at a great point in my life, reminding me about some fundamental truths of humanity & compassion. I think a lot of the things about a relationship with a horse (for example being fair, not putting it under pressure, understanding it’s …
For programmers, there is a paradigm which says “if it quacks like a duck, walks like a duck, then treat it as a duck”. Similarly, a lover must treat you in a certain way to be recognizable as a lover. This includes wanting to spend time with you, and engaging with you. If they don’t …
All we do in our lifes is to interpret sense data. We hear sounds, and make words out of it. We hear words, and make meaning out of it. We understand meaning and make stories out of it. All this requires us to pull up a lot of data from our own memory to fill …
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