Which single drop can lay claim to have created this beautiful sunflower on its own?

Which single rain drop can claim to have created this beautiful sunflower entirely on its own? As such we all are an influence on other humans, but we don’t have the responsibility to be the sole influence on them. If a person “needs to change” but we are not able to be the instrument of […]

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Navigating relationships with AuDHD partners (Autism + ADHD)

We humans are typically good at managing resources – and ensuring that resource exchange happens in a fair manner. Relationships with one or two neurodivergent partners bring their own unique challenges, but also unique rewards. This reframe was very important for me, specifically. Romantic relationships are supposed to be free of resource exchange considerations and

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Misunderstandings, narcissists and malignant narcissists

Life, and interactions with other people is about a fair needs exchange. Sometimes this needs exchange experiences friction. In these cases, I would like to propose a framework of three different categories: Let’s explore the different categories in turn, with a real situation I have experienced in my business. A person is sick frequently. This

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Unlocking the Emotional Brain: Memory Reconsolidation in Psychotherapy

This book, “Unlocking the Emotional Brain: Memory Reconsolidation and the Psychotherapy of Transformational Change” penned by Bruce Ecker, Robin Ticic and Laurel Hulley came to me in an unusual way: My girlfriend said a guy she had dated before our relationship recommended it to her. This guy was growth-oriented, and naturally curious, I dove in.

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