Sometimes, when writing with a woman in an online dating platform, you suspect that she might be a dating scammer. Same for guys. Maybe he or she fit an idea of what you have what these scammers look like. It used to be easy to spot them on Tinder, for example – typically young Asian […]
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AI applications like ChatGPT are very good at giving generic feedback. They are not good at empathy, or other human skills. This is, because they are missing a lifetime worth of human emotional experiences. Yes, these human experiences are reflected in our songs, our poems, our artistic imagery. But all of this is a reflection,
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People often get used to situations, and prefer things to stay the same. However, life is dynamic – nothing stays the same … relationships, people, situations, jobs evolve. In life, it is important to be accepting of situations, people, life in general. Only if we accept a situation as it is, we will be able
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This is about keeping your belongings safe. This is about keeping you safe. Yesterday morning, I checked into a Berlin hostel with lockers. I am carrying lots of equipment and stuff with me – my wallet, company credit cards, a new 1000 $ AI computer, and more. Obviously, I want to keep this stuff safe
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My emotions show that “X doesn’t deserve more pay” me earlier today The request A colleague approached me about a salary increase a couple of weeks back. She is a key colleague for me, someone who has a lot of responsibilities in my company. Someone who really matters, her leaving could disrupt my operation significantly
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Today, I was reflecting about the performance of an employee in my company. expectation mismatch I realized, that a key part in the friction I experience with him, are my expectations of him – and mismatches in what actually happens against these expectations. With some other employees, e.g. the developer who is building businessbreeze.de for
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At a networking event in London I met a group of people, and we went to “the Alchemist” bar together. Of course, some drinks were involved. One of the guys – let’s call him Harry – chatted up two women at a table nearby, and soon myself and two other gentlemen followed. Harry and one
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I have reviewed hundreds of applications and job applicants for my companies. There are some common patterns, which I am recognizing. Do you recognize yourself in one of these mistakes? You are unnecessarily lowering your chance to get the job you’re applying for: These are all things which you can fix and directly influence. Is
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This is the story of how I became the owner of a new pair of glasses. I work a lot. Especially lately. It never feels enough, and it never “is” enough. That is, why I haven’t picked up new test contact lenses from my optician for several months. While going back home from our office,
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LoveWisdomHub is a website, where you can get immediate advice for relationship questions, such as whether to text your new crush, challenging friendship situations, and family ties. The advice is AI-generated, using GPT4 (“ChatGPT”) with a little twist. A friend gave me the feedback, that it is frustrating to wait for a long time for
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