Yesterday I saw a woman taking a selfie in front of a building. After a little consideration I approached her and asked her whether she wanted to take a picture taken of her. A brief conversation ensued – the woman was happy to interact with me. She was a Japanese stewardess. This is an example …
I am currently chatting with a woman (in a dating context), who must remain unnamed. As I am currently travelling in Australia, and she is in Germany, I have not been able to meet with her yet. We have been writing on and off, and it transpired that she is interested in me. I also …
IAT is integrated attachment theory by Thais Gibson / PDS. It consists of 6 components:
The seven areas of life is a shortcut to reflect about the different areas of which your life consists. It is useful to use this list and think about the different areas when using autosuggestion to work on updating core beliefs. Or when you are doing emotional processing, and looking for proofs – you can …
Coping mechanisms and strategies are the things you do in response to a heightened (negative) emotional state. For example, a dismissive avoidant attachment style frequently will have negative associations with vulnerability. When they have been uncharacteristically vulnerable with someone, they will often have a “vulnerability hangover”. They will distance themselves, not return calls, and not …
As discussed in the post about BTEA (beliefs – thoughts – emotions – actions), core wounds aka negative core beliefs influence a lot of your life. They are the result of past painful situations, which you didn’t deserve to go through. As a reaction to these situations you built these beliefs. These may be beliefs …
Today I will introduce you to the concept of auto suggestion, the work horse in PDS. As we discussed in the BTEA article, your actions in stressful situations will often be initiated by beliefs, which in turn create thoughts and emotions. To work on the beliefs, you can identify the deep subconscious beliefs driving this …
BTEA is a concept introduced (to me) by Thais Gibson of the Personal Development School. It is an acronym, and stands for: Beliefs – Thoughts – Emotions – Actions. It describes the chain from the beliefs to the resulting actions which is build in our brains. The chain is initiated by a trigger – a …
In order to use 360T ( a foreign exchange / currency trading software) on two computers, one needs to copy the certificate from one computer to another. The location of the file can be found out this way: Open 360T and click on Help in this screen This screen will open, click on the “Info” …
Just now I was again processing on a situation with an employee. My thoughts kept straying to another situation – which of course plays into my emotions (our emotions are a reflection of the sum of the situations we find ourselves in currently). Therefore, part of the equilibration of my emotions, a big part of …
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