Giving to someone who can’t receive

I just had this thought: Maybe I keep giving to women who can’t receive, because there are built-in boundaries.

If I was to give to a person who is able to receive, then possibly I might exhaust myself with giving much more than I can – there would not be any boundary.

So I’ve chosen the “safe route” of giving to someone who can’t receive … instead of working on my boundaries, and only giving what I want and can.

Again, this is circling back to good boundaries.